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Separating-Individuating from Borderline Partner

Mirror image of separating-individuating from the narcissist in the wake of narcissistic abuse Engulfment anxiety and dependency cause the borderline to cast you as an abuser Admit your contributions as an intimate partner (mate selection, for example, or savior-rescuer complex) I am not an abuser: your authentic voice, get rid of guilt and shame Borderlines parentify: Get rid of the maternal function in the shared fantasy Hand over ownership, regulation Separation: silence your voice in her mind, enhance your authentic voice What about individuation? Once your voice is silenced, both external regulator (“abuser”) and savior, mother and child are gone. Authentic voice is disembodied. Embodying. Individuation requires mind-body work: owning your voice also by connecting it to your body. Reconstituting three lost functions: self-mothering (self-love), self-saving (agency), choosing and affirming life (negating depression, anxiety, catastrophizing, and ANTS) Watch Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for Narcissistic Abuse    • Take These 4 Steps BEFORE Therapy for...   Watch Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The Four Pillars of Self-love    • Love Yourself: Here’s How - or, The F...   Watch Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Intrapsychic Activation Model)    • Decode, Heal Your Mind with IPAM (Int...   Watch Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voice? Do THIS!    • Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voic...   Watch Take Your Life Back, Own It    • Take Your Life Back, Own It   Watch Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inner Silence    • Go to Your Desert, Listen to Your Inn...   Watch How to Individuate, Heal from Narcissistic Abuse    • How to Individuate, Heal from Narciss...   Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60...