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What Being Ghosted Could Say About You (and How to Avoid It!) - Terri Cole

Have you been ghosted? Are you wondering what it says about you? In this video, I'm talking about how to avoid the disappearing dating disaster known as ghosting, handle the emotional aftermath, and understand this experience and grow from it. You'll learn: How to protect yourself when dating The signs of a ghoster A healthy mindset to adopt after being ghosted How to survive and learn from a ghosting experience Many of you wrote in stating that you had been ghosted multiple times, some even from long-term partners. Each inquiry ended with a request for me to share what it means about you. Although it may feel natural to ask, "Why me? What did I do wrong?", that is not an empowered line of questioning because it implies blame and fault. There may be unresolved, unconscious experiences around disappointment or abandonment that could be impacting who you’re attracting. Either way, when you are ghosted, it creates feelings of confusion, helplessness, pain and rejection which can be even more intense if you've been intimate or been in a relationship. That makes it feel personal in a different way. Since you cannot turn back the hands of time, the only productive option is to decide how you’ll respond, what you’ll make the experience mean and what wisdom you’ll take away. To learn more about how to bounce back from being ghosted AND how to grow from the experience, download the Ghosting Checklist at the bottom of this blog post (hit the "download" button): https://www.terricole.com/understand-... TIME STAMPS 0:00 - Introduction 2:18 - Ghosting says more about the ghoster 4:15 - They did you a favor 4:52 - Signs to watch out for & how to call it out 8:19 - Believe them when they show you who they are 9:00 - Take back your power 10:31 - Why you keep attracting ghosters RELATED VIDEOS    • Have You Been Ghosted? How to Avoid This D...   - Ghosted Part 1, How to Avoid It    • 11 Dating Red Flags and How to Spot Them B...   - 11 Dating Red Flags and How to Spot Them    • Boundaries for Dating Success - Terri Cole   - Boundaries For Dating Success    • 8 Dating Warning Signs You Should Not Ignore   - 8 Dating Warning Signs You Shouldn't Ignore    • Code Red: 5 Online Dating Warning Signs   ...   - 5 Online Dating Warning Signs to Watch Out For ABOUT TERRI COLE Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/ CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: https://www.terricole.com/ig Membership: https://terricole.com/tcm Newsletter: https://www.terricole.com/newsletter RESOURCES Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency: https://hfcbook.com Boundary Boss Book: https://amzn.to/44DZID9 The Boundary Boss Workbook: https://amzn.to/3Ra7CRU Insight Timer: https://insig.ht/cpKnbJB4KDb (I have a bunch of free meditations on here and love this app!) BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/terricole I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources. https://www.terricole.com/gethelp/ -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help. Please note: If you choose to sign up for BetterHelp or Insight Timer or buy through my Amazon links, I will receive a commission. Please know that I only recommend services and products that I know & trust. #terricoleshow #datingadvice #ghosted #datingadviceforwomen