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Healing from childhood trauma is not about “moving on” or forgetting the past. It begins with understanding why it wasn’t your fault. Timeline: 00:02 Intro story 01:39 parents behaviour 03:30 psychological theories 08:15 famous books summary 13:50 healing solutions 21:30 last advice In this video, we explore how growing up in an unfair emotional environment shapes our nervous system, self-worth, and relationships — and how healing becomes possible when we stop blaming ourselves and start understanding what really happened. This is not a motivational talk. It’s a calm, evidence-based conversation grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and trauma research. In this video, you’ll learn: • Why the belief in a “fair world” keeps people stuck in self-blame • How accepting that life was unfair can actually reduce shame and anxiety • What childhood emotional neglect does to the adult nervous system • Why healing is about safety, not strength • How validation and self-compassion rewire trauma responses Research & expert perspectives referenced: • Gabor Maté — Trauma, authenticity, and childhood emotional wounds • Bessel van der Kolk — The Body Keeps the Score (how trauma lives in the body) • Dr. Ramani Durvasula — Family trauma, emotional abuse, and boundaries • The School of Life — Emotional neglect and confidence development • TED Talk: Nadine Burke Harris — ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and long-term health impact If you were ever made to feel small, silent, or responsible for things beyond your control — this video is for you. Healing doesn’t start with fixing yourself. It starts with realizing you were never broken.