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Everyone Thinks I Changed But Here's Why

00:00 🗣️ The speaker discusses how they stopped laughing, hanging out, and answering texts, leading people to think they changed for the worse. 00:54 ⏳ The speaker highlights that while others think they have free time, they are working 70 hours a week, building their dreams in every spare moment. 01:04 🚫 The speaker mentions skipping hangouts not because they don't care about friends, but because every Saturday spent socializing is a Saturday not spent building. 01:17 ⏰ The speaker feels the gap between where they are and where they need to be, emphasizing that this gap won't close while pretending everything is fine. 01:46 😢 The speaker explains that people in their life start confirming their fears, saying they've changed and think they're too good for everyone. 02:11 🗣️ The speaker states that nobody tells you about the true cost of transformation, including motivational speakers and the recovery community. 02:44 💔 The speaker clarifies that transformation costs friendships, even with people who were there for them, simply because their lives are no longer compatible. 03:06 🤝 The speaker explains that compatibility is key, and it's not about being better than anyone but acknowledging an uncomfortable truth. 03:26 ⚠️ The speaker warns that if you try to build a new life while maintaining the old one, the old one will inevitably kill the new one. 04:28 💡 The speaker challenges listeners to test if their dream is big enough by seeing if they can still make progress while engaging in unproductive activities. 04:56 💡 The speaker stresses that a real mission demands sacrifice, not just bad habits, but comfortable and fun ones that consume precious time. 05:15 ⏳ The speaker underlines that every hour must go somewhere, and often, time is allocated to other people's agendas, entertainment, or comfort. 05:46 🧠 The speaker explains that cutting people off feels brutal because the human brain is wired against it, associating separation from the social group with danger. 06:16 🚨 The speaker states that when you pull away from your social group, your brain fires the same alarm systems as a physical threat, causing anxiety and guilt. 06:39 🗣️ The speaker explains that the voice in your head screams that you need these people and cannot do it alone, trying to pull you back to the safety of the tribe. 07:23 ↩️ The speaker notes that most people can't handle this gap and slide back into old patterns because the old rhythm is warm and familiar, unlike the cold new path. 07:40 📉 The speaker predicts that if one returns to old ways, in six months, nothing will have changed, and the new life will remain unbuilt. 07:50 🎭 The speaker explains that people will tell themselves they "tried" when they actually found the new life too hard and reverted to the old one. 08:02 😫 The speaker describes the gap as lonely and likely the longest stage, emphasizing the intense struggle of choosing the mission. 08:36 🗓️ The speaker describes mission commitment as empty weekends spent working while others are socializing, leading to persistent calls asking "Where are you?" 09:02 😡 The speaker discusses being called selfish by those who don't understand that what they are building will serve more people than any barbecue. 09:40 📞 The speaker explains letting calls from old friends ring, not out of malice, but because the mission requires everything in this season. 09:58 📏 The speaker clarifies they are not advocating for rudeness or ghosting, but stressing that an extraordinary life requires extraordinary time management. 10:30 😈 The speaker discusses how transformation makes you a "bad guy" or "mirror" to others, who then deal with their discomfort by making you the problem. 10:46 🥂 The speaker illustrates that when you stop drinking, those who still drink feel judged, even if you say nothing. 11:03 😩 The speaker states that your transformation becomes an accusation they didn't sign up for, and they make you the problem to cope with their discomfort. 11:49 🤝 The speaker describes how some friends will try to pull you back out of fear, because your success proves that change is possible, making their inaction a choice. 12:08 👎 The speaker explains it's easier for others to make you the bad guy than to ask themselves why they aren't building something too. 12:35 ⏰ The speaker states that the mission doesn't have time for old conversations, especially after wasting 35 years on them. 13:24 💚 The speaker notes that genuinely caring people will support you, while toxic people will make accusations. 13:38 🎧 The speaker concludes by reiterating "Get Up and Fight Back," advising against doing it alone if using tonight, and if drinking, not to drive. 13:51 🌌 The speaker shares their personal experience that when you decide to do something positive, every negative force tries to pull you back, as if evil doesn't want you to leave th