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Why Do I Feel Numb Emotionally? Dissociation Explained in Depth

Emotional Numbness and How to Start Feeling Again. An in depth look at dissociation and how to heal... For Online Counselling, visit https://www.drdavidmaloney.com Procrastination Video Course: https://www.drdavidmaloney.com/procra... Relationships Video Course: https://www.drdavidmaloney.com/relati... Question: “I’m coming to terms with the fact that almost all of the time, I feel numb. This scares me. I feel that it’s not normal. Also, I feel that I won’t be able to continue my healing if I’m not in touch with my feelings. Any advice on this?” Answer: So many people I had treated for anxiety or depression eventually come to realize that dissociation is an underlying issue. People normally don’t seek help for this issue. However, they should! Ignoring numbness is at the root of so many issues which develop later. There are various types and degrees, some more serious than others (depersonalization, derealization, identity confusion). However, I’m also talking about the common, everyday feeling of emptiness so many of us feel. The solution is deceptively simple: This issue, however, is very treatable. When addressed, there is no need for concern. Here, I’ll talk about ways to start getting back in touch with emotion so that life starts to feel more engaging and joyful. What numbness looks like and why it’s important: 1. Not being emotionally moved by beauty (nature, music, art, small children). 2. Remembering very few significant moments (from past week, month, year). Elizabeth Loftus proved how important emotion is to memory. 3. A feeling of emptiness, that you’re missing something that others have, that you’re on the outside looking in. 4. No real sense of excitement about goals. 5. Interactions with others are only done from a sense of obligation. 6. Occasionally you get a physical sensation (belly, chest or throat) that feels of emptiness. 7. You frequently question the meaning/purpose of your life. 8. You are a thrill-seeker (reckless behaviour, binges, provocation). 9. You use phrases like: I don’t know, I’m not sure, I don’t care, a lot of the time. 10. You get irritated being around people who are excited, playful or happy (fear of having to pretend). 11. You show few external emotional cues (not laughing out loud, narrow range of facial expressions). Thanks for watching. If you enjoy my content, remember to like and subscribe for more. Dr. David Maloney is a Psychologist and therapist. His has trained in a variety of techniques (person-centered, Gestalt, ACIM, psychodynamic) and works with people on a wide variety of issues. His main areas of expertise are in self-esteem, motivation, and relationships.