Why the Best Fundraisers Don't Chase Gifts: J. Paul Fridenmaker on Relationships, Posture, and Trust скачать в хорошем качестве

Why the Best Fundraisers Don't Chase Gifts: J. Paul Fridenmaker on Relationships, Posture, and Trust

Most people think fundraising is about asking for money. In reality, it’s about something far more personal: Your posture. Your relationship with wealth. And whether you can sit across from a successful person with respect. Not suspicion, insecurity, or resentment. In this episode of You Are What You Give, I’m joined by J. Paul Fridenmaker, a longtime major-gifts leader and coach who has spent decades working with faith-driven donors and fundraising professionals. And whatever your own faith background may be, this conversation lands because it isn’t theoretical - it’s lived. In this episode, we explore: Why fundraising health starts inside the fundraiser, not with better scripts How burnout, rejection, and quiet resentment show up long before people leave the field Why the “ask” is teachable, but networking, connection, and trust are the real DNA test A defining 2001 moment where giving a donor “away” led to a 25-year relationship of trust Why the most effective fundraisers aren’t chasing gifts - they’re inviting people to the party This episode is especially relevant for: Nonprofit leaders and executive directors Major gifts officers and development professionals Fundraisers navigating donor relationships, boundaries, and burnout Anyone who invites others to give, serve, or stand with a cause Make sure to connect with J. Paul on LinkedIn   / jpaulfridenmaker  , or tune in to his podcast: The Breakthru Podcast. As with every episode, special thanks to Victoria Hearst, whose generosity and support make You Are What You Give possible.