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The Most Effective Way to Communicate in Your Marriage | Jessica Lewis

I know how frustrating it can be when you're trying to connect with your spouse, but every conversation turns into conflict or disconnect. In this episode of Talk Marriage to Me, I’m sharing what I’ve learned about communicating hard truths in marriage — without sounding harsh, dismissive, or critical. If you’ve ever wondered how to challenge your spouse to grow without treating them like a project, or how to talk about tough things without triggering defensiveness, you’re not alone — and this conversation is for you. I’ll walk you through: How I shifted from controlling to connecting The mistake I made trying to be my husband’s accountability partner What empathy in communication really looks like (Brené Brown’s pit analogy) Why your tone and intention can make or break the conversation If you’re ready to stop just “doing life” next to your spouse and start truly connecting again — this video will help. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe — 79% of you watching aren’t subscribed yet. 👇 I’d love to hear what stood out to you most in the comments. Chapters: 00:00 – How to challenge your spouse without sounding critical 01:14 – Real questions from men at Rise Up Kings 01:35 – Why intention in communication matters 03:01 – The empathy ladder: Brene Brown’s pit analogy 04:01 – The real reason you want your spouse to change 05:23 – Communicating hard truths with emotional connection 05:45 – Should you defend your position or prioritize the relationship? 07:12 – Black wall / white wall: the power of perspective 08:13 – Are you playing God in your marriage? 09:13 – Why your spouse shouldn't be your accountability partner 10:11 – How to respond when your spouse slips into old habits 11:26 – Your tone reveals your intention 12:05 – Stop treating your spouse like a project #TalkMarriageToMe #MarriageAdvice #ChristianMarriage More information about the Rise Up Queens experience can be found at https://www.riseupqueens.com. Learn more about the Rise Up Kings 3-Day Experience for Christian Businessmen at https://www.riseupkings.com/event.