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They Want to Be Friends (But “Not Ruling Out” a Relationship)

If someone has told you they want to be friends, but they’re “not ruling out” a relationship in the future, it can leave you feeling confused, hopeful, and unsure how to proceed — especially if you’re trying to be understanding, patient, or supportive of their attachment style. In this video, I talk about how to think clearly about this dynamic without feeding false hope or abandoning your own needs. We’ll explore what this kind of ambiguity often signals, why it can be so hard to let go when there’s a “maybe” on the table, and how to decide whether staying connected is actually in service of the relationship you want. This pep talk is for you if: You’ve been offered friendship with the possibility of more later You’re unsure whether waiting is self-respecting or self-abandoning You’re trying to navigate an anxious–avoidant or fearful–avoidant dynamic You don’t want to pressure someone — but you also don’t want to put your life on hold Clarity doesn’t come from waiting for someone else to decide. It comes from getting honest about what you want, what you’re available for, and what this situation is actually offering you right now.