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If you stop seeking closeness after being used, it reveals 6 hidden nervous system defenses

If you stop seeking closeness after being used, it reveals 6 hidden nervous system defenses - MARY AINSWORTH Some people don’t stop seeking closeness because they became cold or afraid of love. They stop because their nervous system learned what happens when openness is met with use, imbalance, or lack of safety. This video explores what really happens when someone pulls back emotionally after being drained — not as a choice of the mind, but as a quiet, intelligent response of the body. Through the lens of Mary Ainsworth’s attachment theory, we look at how distance can be a form of regulation, how silence can be protection, and how reduced emotional availability often reflects maturity rather than failure. What appears as withdrawal is often the nervous system preserving itself after learning the cost of unprotected closeness. If you still feel deeply but no longer chase connection, if you’ve become selective, quiet, and observant, this video is for you. This space is for those who value safety over intensity and depth over performance. Like the video if it resonated. Subscribe for more content on attachment, nervous system regulation, and emotional boundaries. And feel free to share in the comments if this experience feels familiar to you.