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Case Study: Grace Community Church - A Fable

A slammed Bible, a 2 a.m. email, and a congregation holding its breath—our fictional case study feels uncomfortably real because the patterns are everywhere. We walk through a pastor’s unraveling and a church’s long memory, tracing how chronic anxiety, low trust, and an aversion to critique grow into a culture where secrets linger and leadership freezes. Using family systems theory, we map the difference between the thing, the emotion, and the reaction to that emotion, then show how differentiation helps a leader stay present, speak clearly, and stop striving for acceptance through outcomes. We dig into the pastor’s family story—authoritarian father, unspoken grief, cutoff siblings—and how attachment wounds often turn gifted leaders into reactors under stress. Then we widen the lens to the church’s history: a golden era without transparency, mishandled allegations, and decisions that eroded credibility. You’ll hear practical steps for change: multi-perspective narrative gathering, clear and open processes, predictable communication rhythms, and prioritization that targets what truly moves the needle on trust. We also explore the culture shift from guilt-innocence to shame-honor, explaining why messages of forgiveness must be paired with robust language of adoption and belonging to calm anxious systems. This is a masterclass in non-anxious leadership: own your part without self-protection, invite accountability without fear, and lead at a humane pace that respects people’s real lives. Whether you’re a pastor, elder, or lay leader, you’ll leave with a framework to diagnose reactivity, resist scapegoating, and rebuild trust one transparent step at a time. If this conversation equips you or someone you serve, share it with your team, subscribe for future case studies, and leave a review to help others find the show. Some Useful Links: • Presbyterian Church in America (PCA) – official denominational site (https://www.pcaac.org) • Vital Church Ministry (https://vitalchurchministry.org) – church consulting and revitalization • The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness: The Path to True Christian Joy (https://www.google.com/search?q=%22Th...) - Tim Keller • Created for Connection: (https://www.google.com/search?q=%22Cr...) The “Hold Me Tight” Guide for Christian Couples (Sue Johnson & Kenneth Sanderfer)  Support the show (https://mygiving.secure.force.com/GXD...) Please connect with us at our Website (https://www.flourishcoaching.org/) , Facebook (  / flourishcoaching1  ) , LinkedIn (  / matt-bohling-05240b15  ) , and YouTube (   / @flourishcoaching6792  ) . If you'd like to support the work of Flourish Coaching you can click here to make a donation. (https://www.flourishcoaching.org/give) Connect with Jeremy to discuss podcasting. (  / jeremy-cefaratti-shrm-cp-59b5634  )