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"It’s Just a Phase” and The Truth About Identity Exploration |

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Creative, we keep rolling through Erik Erikson’s psychosocial stages of development! We’ve officially reached the stage where everything feels dramatic, your body is doing weird stuff without your permission, and adults suddenly want you to “be yourself” while also punishing you for it. Welcome to Stage 5: Identity vs. Role Confusion (roughly ages 12–18) 💬" A lot of things in our life are phases and that's fine. It's morally neutral. I think the problem comes in when we start getting upset that a phase is just a phase and that it wasn't a lifelong thing. We gotta stop that. What the hell is that? Why are we trying to make everything last forever?" - Caitlin Liz Fisher We talk about adolescence as the developmental era of experimenting, trying things on, and figuring out who you are beneath performance, survival, and other people’s expectations. We also talk about how being forced into adult roles too early can fracture identity development and why it makes perfect sense if you still feel like you’re rebuilding “you” now. As you sit with this episode, you might ask and reflect about: What phases did I have that I was shamed for? What parts of me were real, but I had to hide? Did I get to experiment safely or did I have to become someone else to survive? Where do I still feel like I’m “trying on” versions of myself? What would it look like to let that be okay? What We Explore in This Episode Erikson’s Identity vs. Role Confusion stage explained simply Why adolescence is supposed to be full of phases (and why that’s morally neutral) How caretaking roles and parentification can disrupt identity development Why “being the good kid” can become a mask instead of a self The difference between who you are vs. what you do (and why the constant should be you) How identity gets shaped through experimentation: style, interests, community, values Queerness, gender exploration, and why language helps kids feel less alone 🎟️ Join The Creatives Rebellion on Patreon for bonus content, unfiltered rambles, exclusive merch, and the best little weird creative family on the internet: ⁠⁠⁠   / caitlinlizfisher⁠⁠⁠   Join our Neurodivergent Creative Pod!🌞 Want to support heartfelt conversations about mental health, creativity, and neurodivergence? Join the Neurodivergent Creative Pod community: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.askfishfisher.com/pod⁠⁠⁠📩 Subscribe to Cait’s newsletter and grab your copy of the Audacity Bill of Rights—a weekly dose of "you’re not broken, you’re brilliant": ⁠⁠⁠https://www.askfishfisher.com/audacit... 🎧 Leave a comment, send a DM @caitlinlizfisher, or scream into the void (and tag us!)We love hearing what hit home for you!