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If You Say Yes When You Mean No, Watch This – You're Choosing Comfortable Suffering

If You Say Yes When You Mean No, Watch This – You're Choosing Comfortable Suffering Subscribe :    / @psychyr   In this video, we explore Dostoevsky's profound insight into why comfort is your greatest enemy and how familiar suffering keeps you trapped. If you constantly say yes when you mean no, let people use you without pushback, or feel like you're betraying yourself to avoid conflict, you're not being kind — you're being a coward. Learn why Dostoevsky understood that we become comfortable with our own suffering, how people-pleasing is actually fear disguised as kindness, and why the discomfort you're avoiding is the only path to freedom. Discover why setting boundaries feels unbearable while being used feels familiar, how you've trained people to take you for granted, and why temporary discomfort of saying no is better than the permanent pain of self-betrayal. Understand Dostoevsky's lessons from Notes from Underground, Crime and Punishment, and The Brothers Karamazov about choosing uncomfortable truth over comfortable lies. This is not about being selfish — it's about reclaiming your self-respect by finally getting uncomfortable. Timestamps : 00:01:40 – The Real Problem: Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable 00:03:40 – Dostoevsky's Insight on Familiar Suffering 00:05:40 – Examples: Sarah the User & The Job That Drains You 00:07:40 – The Paradox: We Become Attached to Our Pain 00:09:40 – Notes from Underground: Choosing the Devil You Know 00:11:40 – Fake Kindness vs Real Kindness 00:13:40 – What Happens Over Time: The Resentment Builds 00:15:40 – The Difference Between Helping and Being Used 00:17:30 – What Needs to Happen: Get Deliberately Uncomfortable 00:19:30 – Practical Steps: How to Set Boundaries 00:21:30 – The Final Truth: You Only Get One Life 00:23:15 – Final Choice References: Dostoevsky, Fyodor. Notes from Underground. Translated by Richard Pevear and Larissa Volokhonsky. Vintage Classics, 1993