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Likeable vs Respected: why you can't optimize for both

Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook! In this episode, we break down one of the most misunderstood social dynamics: likability vs respect — and why optimizing for one often sabotages the other. Using iconic character examples like Blair Waldorf, Miranda Priestly, Regina George, Serena van der Woodsen, Andy Sachs, and Cady Heron... we explore how charm, competence, boundaries, and conviction shape influence — and why the women who are respected may not always be loved, but they are rarely ignored. This isn’t about becoming cold, intimidating, or unapproachable. It’s about understanding the hidden cost of people-pleasing, the freedom that comes with self-respect, and why being “nice” without standards eventually erodes your confidence. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:32 Being Respected vs Being Likeable 3:51 Blair vs Serena (Gossip Girl) 5:42 Miranda vs Andy (Devil Wears Prada) 8:27 Regina vs Cady (Mean Girls) 11:01 Cost of Likeability 12:30 Final Message Join the It Girl Newsletter: https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/su... Get The Playbook Mini (yes, it's free): https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/pr... Get The Charisma Playbook (yes, it's free also): https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/pr... For more glow up videos, check out our sister channel: @‌ItGirlGlowUp #ItGirlPlaybook #LevelUp #Charisma #MagneticAura #BlairWaldorf #SerenaVanDerWoodsen #ReginaGeorge #CadyHeron #MirandaPriestly #AndySachs #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfImprovement #GlowUp #FeminineEnergy #SelfRespect #Confidence