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Sunday Deep Dive: Murder Board. It Was Never About Them.

I built a murder board. Drunk on whiskey. Sticky notes. Relationships mapped like a crime scene. Not to blame anyone — to finally see myself clearly. This is what I found. And what it built. I was sitting there, a little bit of whiskey in, staring at this wall of relationships like I was trying to solve a crime. And honestly… I was. The crime was me not seeing myself clearly. Every relationship I’d ever been in had one thing in common. Me. And I’d never actually sat down and looked at what I brought to the table — the good, the broken, and the patterns I kept repeating like I was following a script I didn’t know I had. The patterns I kept choosing in other people weren’t accidents. They were familiar. And familiar isn’t the same as healthy — it’s just what home felt like before you knew home could feel different. I wasn’t telling their stories. I was finally telling mine. The moment I started asking “why do I keep showing up in places where this is possible” — everything shifted. I’m not looking for perfect. I’m looking for honest. I’m looking for someone who can do the hard thing when the hard thing needs doing. And I know now — because I finally did that for myself first. But what if there was actually a framework — a real, structured, honest process — that couples could go through together before they needed a crisis to make them pay attention? Having clear vision isn’t a destination. It’s a practice. And it starts with being willing to look. Unlocking The Paradigm Portal Podcast New Episodes Daily