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953 | Before You Set Goals, Build the Identity That Can Hold Them

At the start of a new year filled with big goals, vision boards, and fresh planners, Marsha offers a grounding reframe that changes everything: the vision is not the problem — identity is. In this powerful solo episode, she breaks down why goals collapse, self sabotage shows up, or momentum fades when your identity and nervous system are not calibrated to hold what you want to create. Drawing from NLP, subconscious rewiring, and real time examples from her own business, Marsha explains why identity is the deepest level of change and why strategy without identity work leads to burnout, contraction, and frustration. She walks listeners through how identity shapes beliefs, habits, language, and nervous system safety, and how micro shifts in language, boundaries, and self leadership create sustainable growth. This episode is an invitation to stop asking “What do I want?” and start asking “Who am I choosing to become?” If you want this year to feel different not because you worked harder, but because you led yourself differently, this conversation will land. Highlights [01:42] Why the vision isn’t the problem and identity always is [02:32] The most important question to ask before setting goals: who can actually hold this [04:08] Identity as the deepest level of change in NLP [04:45] The ceiling and floor metaphor and why belief determines capacity [05:29] Why habits don’t create identity — identity creates habits [06:39] How goal setting from lack guarantees self sabotage [07:42] Why vision boards fail when identity doesn’t match the image [08:30] Self sabotage as self protection, not weakness [09:55] A real example of identity contraction around expansion and opportunity [11:11] How identity shapes what you see, hear, and feel [14:03] Speaking identity into existence through present tense language [18:48] Asking better questions: who do I choose to be this year? Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Join the 2026 HWCEO Mastermind: https://meghan-weir.thrivecart.com/hw... Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered... Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered... Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE (https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupp...) Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE (https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenN...) The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. (https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNF...) Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com (http://www.marshavanw.com) Connect on IG, click HERE (  / marshavanw  ) Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE (   / @marshavanw  ) Mentioned in this episode: 1000 Podcast EP Live Event https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/ZzZ...