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Stop Chasing, It Will Appear

What if the thing you want is actually around you right now, but you can’t see it because you aren’t an energetic match to it. It’s simply invisible to you due to energetic resonance, so it becomes invisible because you believe it’s not here. It’s a classic paradox. Whether it’s a romantic interest, a lost set of keys, or a career breakthrough, the "stop chasing" phenomenon is a real psychological and practical shift. It feels like magic, but there is some grounded logic behind why things tend to show up once you’ve stopped sprinting after them. Here is why the "chase" often keeps the prize at a distance: The Nature of the Chase We are taught that to get what we want, we must pursue it with relentless intensity. We treat our goals like prey and ourselves like hunters. But "chasing" is a state of active resistance. When you chase, you are operating from a fundamental state of lack. You are telling your brain and the world that you are incomplete without the object of your desire. This creates a psychological and physiological "bottleneck" that actually keeps the prize at a distance. Why the Chase Fails The harder you grasp, the more the object slips through your fingers. This isn't just bad luck; it’s a collision of biology and philosophy: The Spotlight Effect (Neurology): Chasing locks you into Focused Mode. Your prefrontal cortex creates "tunnel vision," filtering out peripheral opportunities. You become so obsessed with the door that you miss the open window. The Scarcity Signal (Social Dynamics): In human interactions, chasing broadcasts "high risk." It triggers the other party’s avoidance system. By demanding a result, you remove the "choice" from the other person, causing them to instinctively pull away to preserve their autonomy. The Frustration Loop (Biology): Repeatedly failing to "catch" what you’re chasing activates nociceptin neurons. These "frustration" neurons suppress your dopamine, leaving you exhausted, less creative, and literally less capable of succeeding. The Mechanics of Letting Go The moment you stop chasing, a profound shift occurs. You aren't giving up; you are transitioning into Wu Wei—effortless action. The Diffuse Mode: When you release the mental grip, your brain’s Default Mode Network activates. This "Lantern" focus allows you to connect distant dots. This is why the "Eureka!" moment happens the second you stop thinking about the problem. The Backwards Law: As Alan Watts famously noted, some things in life are "non-volitional." You cannot force yourself to fall asleep, and you cannot force someone to love you. These are results, not actions. By stopping the force, you create the vacuum necessary for the result to fill. The Power of Autonomy: When you stop chasing, you move from an Anxious state to a Secure one. This shift in energy makes you more attractive to opportunities and people alike. You are no longer a "hunter"; you are a "centre of gravity." Conclusion The moment you stop chasing, the thing appears because you have finally stopped scaring it away. You have lowered the stakes, opened your field of vision, and allowed the natural "buoyancy" of life to take over. You didn't lose your ambition; you simply released your grip on the throat of the outcome. Instagram- @farrarsretreatsco @kinghchronicles Email- kinghchronicles@gmail.com Contact- +254100902772 For Bookings and Enquiries!