Is It Emotional Abuse? How to Identify & Protect Yourself in Divorce скачать в хорошем качестве

Is It Emotional Abuse? How to Identify & Protect Yourself in Divorce

Explore the tactics abusive partners use to maintain control, how emotional abuse can impact divorce and custody proceedings, and—most importantly—how to protect yourself, rebuild your confidence, and move forward with clarity. When emotional abuse in your relationship or divorce, it becomes confusing, isolating, and overwhelming. Many people don’t realise that abuse isn’t always physical—disrespect, manipulation, and control can be just as damaging, especially during separation. In this episode, we’re joined by Krasi Kirova, a clinical psychologist specialising in complex trauma, emotional and psychological abuse, and family violence. With extensive experience in trauma-informed approaches, Krasi helps us break down the Three Ds of Emotional Abuse—Disrespect, Disempowerment, and Distortion—and how these behaviours can show up in divorce. 🚨 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses emotional and psychological abuse, which may be distressing for some listeners. If you need support, please reach out to 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) for confidential advice and assistance. 🎧 Listen to This Episode If You: ✔️ Feel like your voice was never heard during your marriage or separation ✔️ Have experienced gaslighting, manipulation, or financial control in your relationship ✔️ Are struggling to explain emotional abuse to your lawyer or the court ✔️ Want to understand how emotional abuse impacts divorce and child custody ✔️ Need tools and strategies to protect yourself during and after separation ✔️ Are curious about the new coercive control laws and how they affect family law cases Legal Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. We are not psychologists or legal professionals, and the information shared is based on personal experiences and general knowledge. Every situation is unique, and laws vary by jurisdiction. If you are going through a divorce, custody dispute, or financial settlement, please seek independent legal advice from a qualified family law professional. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Abuse in Divorce 00:35 Meet Krasi Kirova: Expert in Emotional Abuse 02:31 Understanding Emotional Abuse: The Basics 08:34 The 3 D's of Emotional Abuse 09:40 Disrespect: The First Pillar of Emotional Abuse 15:42 Disempowerment: The Second Pillar of Emotional Abuse 21:37 Addressing Hidden Abuse 21:48 Free Resources for Divorce Preparation 22:33 Understanding Distortion in Abusive Relationships 23:48 The Impact of Gaslighting 25:42 Recognising and Documenting Abusive Patterns 33:47 The Role of Therapy and Mediation 37:40 Workshops and Support for Women 38:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Episode Highlights: 🔹 [04:00] – What is emotional abuse, and how does it differ from disagreements or bad behavior? 🔹 [10:00] – The Three Ds of Emotional Abuse: Disrespect – Verbal put-downs, silent treatments, invalidation of your feelings. Disempowerment – Financial control, isolation, and decision-making without your input. Distortion – Gaslighting, blame-shifting, and rewriting reality. 🔹 [27:00] – Why emotional abuse is often hard to recognize when you’re in it. 🔹 [31:00] – How to document abuse effectively for legal cases and communicate it to your lawyer. 🔹 [36:00] – Should you try family therapy or mediation with an emotionally abusive partner? 🔹 [40:00] – The impact of new coercive control laws in Australia and how they apply to divorce. Links & Resources Mentioned: Resources & Support: ✅ Krasi Kirova’s "Understanding Emotional Abuse in Relationships" Workshop – https://kirovapsychology.com.au/works... ✅ 1800 RESPECT – Confidential support for domestic & family violence: https://www.1800respect.org.au ✅ Mediation Checklist – www.thedivorcecourse.com.au ✅ Legal Resources on Coercive Control – https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/fv/overview Recommended Books: 📚 Why Does He Do That? – Lundy Bancroft 📖 Amazon | Booktopia (AU) 📚 The Verbally Abusive Relationship – Patricia Evans 📖 Amazon | Book Depository 📚 In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People – George K. Simon 📖 Amazon | Book Depository Related Podcast Episodes: 🎙 Gaslighting in Divorce: How to Spot It & Shut It Down – (Do you have a link for this episode? I can add it!) 🎙 Coercive Control & The Family Court: What You Need to Know –    • Telling Your Story: Putting your Coer...   🎙 Mediation or Manipulation    • Mediation or Manipulation: How to Han...   🔗 Support Services Lifeline – 13 11 14 (Australia) 1-800-RESPECT – Domestic Violence Support #DivorceSupport #CovertNarcissist #FamilyLaw #NarcissisticAbuse #Separation #LegalTips #CustodyBattles #PropertySettlement #ToxicRelationships #Manipulation #CourtOrders Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need it!