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Stuck in the Same Sins Again, Husband?

New Year, same sins? If you’re a Catholic husband who keeps confessing the same porn, anger, and laziness, this video walks you through how real change actually works – with St Thomas Aquinas, the moral theology manuals, and the older spiritual combat tradition. If your marriage feels tense and you don’t know what to do next… Try KnowlandBot (24/7 WhatsApp clarity on your next step) — free 👉 https://www.patriarchy.com/knowlandbot Or for leadership training + accountability 👉https://www.patriarchy.com/start 🔥 In this episode I cover why willpower and resolutions keep failing you, what Aquinas really means by “habit,” how your daily choices are training you toward virtue or vice, and why your wife and kids often get the worst of you while your boss gets the best. 🙏 We’ll look at chastity, anger and prayer as frontline habits, and I’ll give you a simple 30–60 day plan to start becoming a different kind of man with God’s grace – not just feeling guilty in January and collapsing by February. 00:00 - Introduction: Why New Year's Resolutions Fail 00:25 - Real Change: St. Thomas Aquinas & The Battle 00:57 - The Cycle of Willpower and Failure 01:23 - Why Willpower Alone Isn't Enough 01:49 - A 30-60 Day Plan for Change 01:56 - The Role of Grace and Habit 02:21 - Shame, Willpower, and How Habits Work 02:49 - Habits Shape Your Character 03:30 - Virtues: Acquired vs. Infused 04:10 - Grace Builds on Nature 04:33 - If God Gave You Every Grace, Would You Change? 04:51 - No Plateau: Always Getting Better or Worse 05:03 - Every Act Strengthens Virtue or Vice 05:45 - How Bad Habits Form and Why They're Hard to Break 06:16 - The Binge-Crash Cycle 06:46 - Why Your Family Gets the Worst of You 07:27 - Habits at Work vs. Home 07:56 - The Order of Charity in Family Life 08:16 - Your Wife's Strongest Claim on Your Love 08:37 - Building (or Breaking) Habits: Chastity, Anger, Prayer 09:17 - How Porn and Bad Habits Are Built 09:43 - Recklessness with Your Soul 09:46 - Anger: Just vs. Unjust in the Home 10:12 - Practicing Vice: The Habit of Anger 10:32 - The Impact on Your Family 10:55 - Scripture's Warning to Husbands 11:21 - Resentment and Communication in Marriage 11:40 - Disconnection and Prayer Habits 12:15 - Building Habits: Start Small, No Exceptions 12:41 - If You Fall, Get Up Immediately 13:12 - Every Occasion is Training 13:38 - Get Accountability and Support 15:04 - God’s Grace and Your Cooperation 15:57 - Start Today: Concrete Action 16:30 - Join the Community & Final Thoughts