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Hi, I'm Julie Weber of Liberate Ministries. Today's topic is called: Relationships Video 4. The resources for this video comes from the liberate and freedom seminars and from life’s observations. Through the last few relationship videos we have been covering different scenarios of having an abortion and how it affects your relationships. Today, I want to talk about marriage and speak from a different angle on how abortion can affect your marriage relationship. The angle I'm speaking about is looking at your abortion from your other children’s eyes in family settings. In talking about abortion with adult children of the parents who've aborted one of their siblings. I discovered one aspect that came out of all scenarios. None of their parents wanted to face the topic and publicly talk about it within their family. These adult children just want family restoration so they can move on in life. At the same time, they also wanted to respect their parent’s privacy and didn't want to press them to talk about it. They just can't understand, how come they don't deal with it. Lets look at 3 family scenarios that are happening today. Family scenario one: I was having a conversation with a professional entrepreneur and he mentions to me about his parents abortion. He shared that his mom had mentioned to them a while back that she had had an abortion. They know that their father is involved somehow. They watch silently and witness how their mom treats their father if and when the topic does briefly comes up. Years go by. They can't understand why they’re parents don't work on the issue in their family. They want to help their parents but don't know what to do. They said their parents had an abortion when they were younger. Family scenario two: Early on in my career after I had publicly shared my story, I had a pastor reveal to me that his mom had revealed to him, that she had had an abortion. His father was the father of that child who was now a sibling of his. He couldn't understand, first, how his parents could make a decision to give life to one child in their family and not give life to another child. How come he was spared from dying? What was going on in their relationship to have this happen? He wanted answers and he wanted so much to help his parents and didn't know what to do. He was angry and frustrated that his parents didn't deal with it. He just wanted to get past this point in his life. Family scenario three: Observations from 2 single adults who became pregnant and were encouraged to have an abortion from their parents. Their parents believed in abortion so they were not able to keep their child. After we spent some time with them helping them understand about their abortion they had, the kids changed their views on abortion and were going to change the way they live and believe. They also wanted to help their parents get healed from their abortions. They're parents were not willing to get help for their abortions. The 2 single adults couldn't understand why they were here working on their healing when they're parents won't deal with it. In their eyes, that didn't seem right. In this particular situation, there was lots of talk back and forth between the parents and the kids about their beliefs and stands on abortion. These kids just wanted to get past their abortion experience and get on with their lives. They also wanted family restoration. Google's definition of one flesh is: One Flesh, phrase of flesh 1. used to refer to the spiritual and physical union of two people in a relationship, especially marriage. "my body is his, his is mine: one flesh" This information is cited from the attached link to this video. It is also a term used in the bible from this scripture: Genesis 2:23-25, (MSG). The Man said, "Finally! Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh! Name her Woman for she was made from Man." Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and embraces his wife. They become one flesh. The two of them, the Man and his Wife, were naked, but they felt no shame. Has abortion brought shame upon your marriage relationship? Has it extended to your family setting so much that you can't talk about it? This could be shame. Maybe your children can see this but you can't. Let's talk about cleave. Cited from vocabulary.com, quoted. Cleave, a verb, has two very different meanings. It can describe cutting or splitting something apart with a sharp instrument, or -oddly enough-it can describe sticking to something like glue. To cleave or not to cleave, that is the question.