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Why You Always Fall for the One Who Can’t Love You | Dr. Gabor Maté

If you keep falling for people who can’t fully love you, it’s not because you’re weak, broken, or unlucky in love. It’s because something familiar is being activated. In this powerful talk inspired by Dr. Gabor Maté, we explore why so many people are unconsciously drawn to emotionally unavailable partners—and why love so often feels painful instead of safe. According to trauma-informed psychology, we don’t choose partners based on what’s healthy. We choose them based on what feels familiar to our nervous system. If love in childhood felt inconsistent, distant, or conditional, the adult heart may learn to associate love with: Emotional unpredictability Having to earn affection Waiting, hoping, proving Feeling unseen but attached Dr. Gabor Maté explains that unresolved childhood wounds often show up as adult relationship patterns. We confuse intensity with intimacy. We confuse longing with connection. And we mistake emotional unavailability for mystery or depth. This speech is for: People who keep loving the wrong person Those who feel “too much” in relationships Empaths drawn to wounded or closed partners Anyone tired of repeating the same heartbreak If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I always choose people who can’t meet me emotionally?”—this message will bring clarity, compassion, and truth. You are not asking for too much. You’re asking from an old wound. And wounds can heal. 🎧 Listen with honesty. This one may change how you see love forever.