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Repair: Owning Your Mistakes & Rebuilding Trust

📌 BRIEF SUMMARY Repair is what a calm and steady father does after he blows it. Dan explains that rupture is inevitable—raised voices, overreactions, sharp sarcasm, unfair consequences—but trust isn’t lost because you messed up. Trust is lost when you *don’t come back*. He gives a simple 3-step repair framework: *name what happened, own your part without excuses, and reconnect emotionally*, then (if needed) calmly restate the boundary. Through a real story from his home (stress + messy rooms + losing his cool), Dan shows how repair rebuilds safety, teaches kids that mistakes aren’t identities, and models confession, grace, and restoration in real time—so kids learn “Dad is safe… and maybe God’s grace is real too.” ---------------------------------------- ⏰ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 — Hook + definition of repair (calm dads come back strong) 00:35 — Series context + why “what happens after you blow it” matters 01:10 — Two common family models: avoidance vs authority 01:55 — Core reframe: trust isn’t lost when you mess up; it’s lost when you don’t come back 02:25 — 3-step repair framework: name it, own it (no excuses), reconnect 03:05 — Real-life rupture story setup (stress + messy rooms) 04:05 — The rupture moment + what it felt like for the kids 05:05 — The repair conversation (step-by-step) + “truth with grace” boundary reset 06:35 — The hard part: apologizing without “letting them off the hook” 07:45 — Sibling-conflict example + quick scripts + 24-hour repair challenge + next episode tease ---------------------------------------- KEY QUOTE “ Trust isn’t lost because we messed up. Trust is lost when we don’t come back. " ---------------------------------------- RESOURCES 🔸 POSITIVE LEGACY ACADEMY Your 12-month coaching program for Christian fathers who want deep inner change and strong relational leadership. → https://findyourazimuthcoaching.com/l... 🔸 SUPPORT THE SHOW If this episode served you: Follow the podcast Leave a 5-star review Share it with another dad who would benefit Connect with Dan 📧 Email: mailto:coachdan@fya-coaching.com 📸 Instagram:   / fya.coaching   📘 Facebook:   / fya-coaching   💼 LinkedIn:   / daniel-a-hayden-   🎥 YouTube:   / @findyourazimuth