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I'm tired of being "the disposible/therapist" friend - Reddit Stories

Reddit story Hi everyone. I just needed to ge this off my chest. I'm 27, in college and have a few friends here and there. However for most of my "friends" I'm really disposable. They usually take a week to respond to texts and I usually arrange hangouts. I am angry and sad about this as I put a lot of effort into relationships. I'm always the one showing interest and caring about people. I show them I care, tell them I love them, listen to their problems and ask them how they feel. I try to accommodate them etc. I'm currently very ill from gastritis and reflux, we talking some days I think I don't even want to be around anymore, and it's taken a toll on my mental health and life. Even with some friends I have online, I'm the one who's "holding up" the morale when they're depressed- motivating them to eat/go outside etc. and I'm just so so tired of no oner ever checking up on me and asking how I'm doing or what I'm currently into. Showing interest in my things. Idk what to do with this as people will say "get new friends" well its hard rn as I live in a small town and due to my illness can't really go anywhere else. I'm sorry I'm so so sorry for coming on here but I just wish for once someone would be like hey! how have you been? Wanna hang out sometime? Let's do something that's okay for you :) (I almost started tearing up writing the last part)