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When a BPD Partner Tries to Turn Your Individual Therapist Against You

When a borderline partner feels their control slipping, they may try to turn your own therapist against you. In this video, I break down a real-life example of a BPD therapy ambush, where a borderline wife crashed her husband’s individual therapy session in an attempt to: Control the narrative Discredit him as the “real problem” Recruit the therapist as an ally Reframe accountability and boundaries as “abuse” This isn’t about healing. It’s about power, image management, and continued control. If you’re in a relationship with a BPD or narcissistic partner (and you’re considering couples therapy, individual therapy, or setting boundaries) you need to understand how therapy can be misused against you. In this video, you’ll learn: How BPD partners manipulate therapists Why couples therapy often backfires with personality-disordered partners How “both-sides” framing harms abuse victims Why emotional withdrawal after abuse is not abuse What ethical therapists should (and shouldn’t) allow This video is especially relevant for men who’ve been: -falsely accused gaslit in therapy pressured to “own their part” in someone else’s abuse told reconciliation is the goal no matter the cost Therapy should protect victims, not enable abusers. Counseling, Consulting and Coaching with Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD I provide help for men in relationships with abusive women. Since 2009, I've specialized in helping abused men end toxic relationships, cope with the stress of ongoing abuse, high-conflict divorce, parallel parenting skills and heal from the subsequent trauma. I combine practical advice, emotional support and goal-oriented outcomes. If you’d like to work with me, please visit the Schedule a Session page or you can email me directly at [email protected] or [email protected]. All the social media links Website: http://www.shrink4men.com contact: [email protected] or [email protected] Facebook:   / shrink4men   Twitter:   / shrink4men   Instagram:   / shrink4men   Threads: https://www.threads.net/@shrink4men BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/shrink4men.b... Adapted from: https://shrink4men.com/2025/03/27/bpd... Topics covered: borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic abuse, couples therapy with a borderline, false abuse allegations, therapy manipulation, coercive control, male abuse victims, high-conflict relationships, gaslighting, triangulation, and therapy boundaries.