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Why Men Seek Validation & Approval

Why do men appear to seek approval and validation? I want to go into this today for you to help you understand that although it IS sometimes about that (when we're coming from a wounded place) it's not ALWAYS about wanting to approval and validation from others, but more about intimacy and connection. As human beings, we don't always celebrate differences as it is sometimes perceived as threatening as opposed to complementary. We sometimes see differences as a "better than" attitude. As men and women, we're different, of course. However, these differences can play a role in how we go about our lives. It impacts how we relate. From an evolutionary perspective, men are born to prove themselves to their clan, tribe, or group. They're responsible for protection, hunting, and provision. This resulted to an evolutionary pattern which is very familiar to most men, this biological need to feel of utility and to be "of use" to the people that matter most in their lives. Oftentimes, this need for purpose and vision is more about intimacy, connection, and bonding. It's core to the male self. So do we seek approval and validation in a healthy way? Consider asking yourself these questions: •How do I acknowledge myself? •How do I define the value I give to community and my loved ones, first and foremost, by myself? Leave your comments below. I'd love to know your thoughts! 👇👇👇 One is glad to be of service.