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The power differentials of silence in romantic relationships

http://losangeleswestsidetherapy.com/... Silence is a weapon that couples use to feel strong and not-needy. The power of the silencer comes by talking all over their partner, or with a cruel barb that wounds and effectively kills them off. The wounded partner is obliterated and the silencer is filled with the power of life and death. The silenced parter then builds up their power by sealing themselves off from the hurtful partner who silenced them. The silenced uses their wound as power to be impenitrable, unreachable, and unavailable, proving that they don't need the silencing partner. This power differential gets played out regularly among couples and between ourselves with the way we have our inner dialogues. Recognizing needs and allowing vulnerability is the way out.