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How to Stop Attracting the Wrong Men & Find Real Love | Chaya Garcia

Connect with Chaya: ~www.connectwithkaia.com IG: @epicloveexpert What if the secret to finding epic love isn't about finding the right person — but becoming one? In this raw, honest, and deeply insightful conversation, host Karen Spece sits down with Kaia Garcia, the Epic Love Expert, relationship and dating coach, to explore the invisible patterns that keep women stuck in cycles of toxic relationships — and exactly how to break free. Kaia's own story is where it all begins. At 26, she had two psychology degrees, a master's, a fit body, a house, a car, and a good job — and a boyfriend who left her to do drugs at a festival upstate. Instead of blaming him, she asked herself a more powerful question: how did I attract this? That single shift sent her down a 20-year deep dive into codependency, narcissism, love addiction, and the invisible mechanics of attraction — and ultimately into a thriving marriage, a family, and a coaching practice that is changing women's lives. In this episode you'll discover: Why successful, accomplished women end up in abusive or neglectful relationships — and what's actually driving it The concept of the "Love Lighter" identity and how shifting who you believe you are transforms who you attract The only two relationship patterns that exist: love (consistent, calm, prioritized) vs. exchange (a spectrum of being used) — and how to tell the difference on date one The three components of self-love that form the foundation of healthy relationships: protection, acceptance, and forgiveness Why fear of abandonment and fear of failure are the two forces keeping women in relationships they should have left years ago How narcissism, addiction, and control show up on a first date — and the specific red flags that scientifically predict relationship failure Why your environment may matter more than your mindset when you're trying to heal The powerful concept of "illness by proximity" — and why sometimes you have to move your whole life to move forward Kaia also gives a sneak peek at her upcoming book, The Little Pink Book — a practical, science-backed guide to dating that teaches women exactly what to look for, what to ask, and what to walk away from before it's too late. 🎁 Free Resource from Kaia: 9 free videos covering the most common dating mistakes women make — available at marriedin2025.com 📞 Ready to work with Kaia? Book a free discovery call at connectwithkaia.com 📱 Follow her on social media at @epicloveexpert 📌 All links in the show notes! If this resonated with you, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and subscribe — it helps more women find conversations like this one. Meta Description: Relationship expert Kaia Garcia joins Second Wind Women to reveal why smart, successful women attract toxic partners, how to identify narcissism and addiction on a first date, and the self-love framework that transforms your love life from the inside out. Focus Keyphrase: how to stop attracting toxic relationships and find real love Sonnet 4.6