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Oral character structure, the needy type - Reichian character structures

Clarity session: https://luizameneghim.com/en/clarity-... 00:00 - Introduction 01:30 - Development of the Oral Character Structure 03:57 - Physical Characteristics 06:06 - Emotional Tendencies 07:03 - Challenges 09:22 - General problems 10:57 - What to expect 11:52 - What not to expect 12:28 - How to stimulate them 13:01 - Conclusion The oral character structure is one of the five structures that explain how our minds work. Each character structure is formed based on our nervous system's development and experiences we go through. During the early months of life, a baby's nervous system undergoes intense development. Babies start interacting with the world, especially during breastfeeding, and emotional contact. The development of the oral character structure occurs from birth until around 18 months of age. The child relies on others to meet their needs. Unfortunately, many times these needs go unmet due to various circumstances in the environment. The wound of orals is the pain of abandonment, the feeling of not being seen or nurtured enough. Physical traits associated with the oral character structure Oral individuals typically have a round head shape with big cheeks, giving them a friendly and welcoming appearance. Their eyes are often small and needy, when they smile, their eyes may almost close. The oral phase is closely related to the mouth and lips, emphasizing the need for connection. Oral individuals tend to have bigger mouths. This characteristic arises from their unfulfilled needs during this phase. Some people have visible gums when they smile, along with buck teeth or an open bite, as some orals sucked their thumbs as children. Their larger mouths serve as a way to communicate their needs and avoid feeling abandoned once again. Oral people often have rounded aspects in their shoulders, arms, and forearms. Some may have a concave chest, physically representing their emotional hole. They tend to have a softer and more relaxed posture. Their hips are round and soft, and their legs can appear chubby but are visibly weak and undercharged. Since the oral phase extends until around 18 months when children are just beginning to walk, their legs often lack strength. This weakness, coupled with the weight of their bodies, may cause their knees to turn inward, forming an "X" shape. Emotional tendencies and personality traits of the oral character structure : Orals are known for their empathy and sensitivity. They have a natural ability to understand and share others' emotions. Due to their own experiences of unfulfilled needs, orals have a deep craving for connection and intimacy. However, the oral character structure also presents its own challenges. Orals can experience emotional roller coasters, going from feeling perfectly fine and happy to suddenly experiencing discomfort in their chest, almost a physical pain. For fear of abandonment and unfulfilled needs, individuals with the oral character structure may constantly seek validation and reassurance from others. They struggle with setting boundaries and prioritizing their own needs. There is a high tendency for emotional dependence and involvement in abusive relationships. Orals find it challenging to say no to others but have a hard time letting go of people in their own lives. It's important to note that there are two types of oral character structures: the collapsed and the compensated: individuals with the oral character structure may alternate between these two states. General life problems that oral individuals tend to encounter. In terms of money and professional life, they sometimes avoid promotions or new opportunities in different companies or countries out of fear of being far from their loved ones. When offering services or running a business, they may struggle to set appropriate prices for their products or charge too little, unconsciously afraid that people will leave them. They may also develop a tendency to gain weight as they attempt to fill the emotional void in their chest through food or drinking, leading to potential addictions. If you identify with the oral character structure, I encourage you to allow yourself to cry, seek companionship, and engage in activities that provide sensory experiences or connect with nature when you are in emotional distress. What can you expect from oral individuals? Expect connection, warmth, loud laughter, and open communication. They enjoy being the center of attention, and their superpower is communication. Don't expect them to be silent, as they tend to be talkative by nature. To stimulate orals, allow them to express themselves freely. You can also touch their arm or pat them on the back while conversing. Physical connection facilitates communication. Oral individuals appreciate having their feelings recognized and their emotions valued. By creating an environment of acceptance and understanding, you can nurture the oral character structure.