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Why Intimacy Disappears in Japanese Marriages But Not How You Think

n this video I talk about something that isn’t often discussed openly when it comes to marriage in Japan… intimacy. Many people assume that intimacy simply disappears over time, especially after marriage and children. But after speaking to people here in Japan — including young people, housewives, and salarymen — I’ve come to a different conclusion. The desire doesn’t disappear. Men still want to feel appreciated, respected, and desired. Women still want to feel wanted, emotionally connected, and attracted. So what actually changes? In many cases, it’s not the need for intimacy that disappears — it’s the connection between the two people. I talk about: why intimacy often fades in Japanese marriages how roles shift from “man and woman” to “father and mother” why romance and “wooing” often stop the emotional build-up that creates attraction (and why it disappears) why some people begin to look elsewhere instead of fixing the relationship This video is based on my own experience, a 15-year marriage, and conversations I’ve had with people living in Japan. Of course, this doesn’t apply to everyone — but it does raise some important questions about relationships, communication, and maintaining connection over time. If you're interested in dating, marriage, or relationships in Japan (or anywhere), this is something worth thinking about. Subscribe for more real discussions about relationships, marriage, and divorce in Japan. Welcome to Divorcing Japan — a channel for fathers and men navigating separation, custody, and survival in Japan and around the world. Through personal stories, practical advice, and emotional truth, this channel aims to support those going through one of life’s hardest chapters — especially when the system feels stacked against you. 💬 New videos weekly about: • Divorce and custody in Japan • Life after separation • Fatherhood from a distance • Mental health and emotional recovery 🛑 This channel is based on personal experience and is not legal advice. If you're in legal proceedings, consult a qualified attorney. divorcigjapan.substack.com \#divorcingjapan #japanesedivorce #foreignfather #custodyjapan #mensmentalhealth #singlefather #divorcesupport #divorceinjapan