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How I stopped my child's Demand Avoidance meltdown

In this video, I recount a recent incident where Ruby experienced a meltdown after an unexpected fall from her scooter. 02:00 – Understanding the Fight, Flight, or Freeze Response 03:10 – The Role of the Nervous System: Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic 04:05 – Why the Reaction Feels Extreme in Demand-Avoidant Children 05:00 – What Not to Say: Avoiding Dismissive Responses 05:45 – Being the Calm in the Storm: Jim's Approach 06:30 – Validating Feelings Without Correction 07:15 – The Importance of Connection Over Correction 08:00 – The Unpredictability of Demand Avoidance 08:45 – Building Flexibility and Adaptability as a Parent 09:30 – Introducing the 'Respawn' Concept from Minecraft 10:15 – Using Play and Humor to Model Recovery 11:00 – Creating a Playful Bridge Between Losing and Regaining Control 11:45 – Observing Positive Changes in Ruby's Responses 12:30 – Final Thoughts: Embracing the Journey and Learning Together I delve into: Understanding PDA: Exploring how loss of control and surprises can trigger intense reactions in children with PDA. Immediate Response Techniques: The importance of staying calm, validating feelings, and avoiding corrective language during a meltdown. Innovative Coping Mechanisms: How integrating the concept of "respawning" from Minecraft helped Ruby manage her emotions and regain control. Long-Term Strategies: Emphasizing flexibility, adaptability, and the significance of building a shared language to navigate challenging moments. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or educator, this video offers practical, compassionate approaches to support children with demand avoidance tendencies. Remember, it's a journey filled with learning, patience, and growth—for both you and your child. 🔔 Subscribe to join us on this path, and don't forget to like and share if you find this helpful.