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It's Not Your Ambition. It's Your Trauma.

It’s Not Your Ambition. It’s Your Trauma. (The High Achiever’s Curse: Part 2) You weren’t born chasing gold stars. You weren’t born thinking, "If I slow down, I’ll be forgotten." You were trained. Welcome to Part 2 of "The High Achiever’s Curse: Healing The Void." In the last lesson, we identified that your success is a survival response. Today, we are going to find the source code. In this lesson, I’m showing you exactly how your "Childhood Blueprint" was written. You will learn the specific emotional rules you absorbed from your "perfectly imperfect" caregivers and why you are currently trying to rewrite your history by re-enacting your worst day over and over again. In lesson two, It's Not Your Ambition. It's Your Trauma. We trace how you're not chasing your goals, you're chasing your trauma, and identify your childhood blueprint and when love became a performance. IN THIS EPISODE: 1- The 3 High-Achiever Blueprints: Which one are you running? 2- Why you are not chasing a bigger goal—you are chasing a different childhood. 3- How to stop blaming yourself (and your parents) by understanding the mechanics of the "Worst Day Cycle." 📓 YOUR REPAIR WORK (The De-Programming Journal) To change the blueprint, you first have to see it. Grab your journal and answer the 3 questions from this lesson: 1- When I was growing up, what did I feel I had to be or do to get love, attention, or approval? Complete the sentence: “I learned I had to ___________ to be loved.” 2- What did I feel I had to hide or never show if I wanted to stay connected and safe? Complete the sentence: “I learned I had to hide ___________ to stay safe.” 3- Looking at my life right now, how am I still living by those same rules? Be specific: where do you still perform, over-function, or abandon your needs to keep connection (work, relationships, parenting, friendships, even your relationship with yourself)? 0:00 Why High Achievers Feel Empty After Success 0:38 Your Emotional Blueprint Was Formed in Childhood 1:59 Perfectionism and Shame: “If I’m Not Perfect, I’m a Problem” 3:09 Why Rest Feels Unsafe for High Performers 4:05 “My Needs Are Too Much” – Emotional Suppression Explained 4:48 The Overfunctioning Trap: The Responsible One Who Never Rests 5:55 Why Your Brain Repeats Old Emotional Patterns 6:43 Success Can’t Heal a Childhood Wound 8:20 You’re Not Chasing Bigger Goals. You’re Chasing a Different Childhood 9:00 Stop Blaming Yourself (And Stop Blaming Your Parents) 10:05 Why Success Will Never Fill the Void 11:06 Journal Questions to Break the High Achiever Pattern 13:14 The Shame Voice That Keeps You Running ▶️ WATCH THE Previous LESSON Click here to watch Part 1:    • The High Achievers CURSE: Why The Void Nev...   🚀 READY TO GO DEEPER? If you are ready to move beyond the videos and start rewriting your blueprint with my help, here are your next steps: 1. Take the Individual Freedom Assessment. Get a personalized snapshot of your patterns so you know exactly what to work on. 👉 Take the assessment- https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/emoti... 2. Read the Books Dive deep into the mechanics of the Worst Day Cycle™ and Emotional Authenticity. 📚 Your Journey To Success: https://amzn.to/3nfVp 📚 Your Journey To Being Yourself: https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ 3. Work With Me Directly For high achievers ready for individualized, trauma-informed support. 👉 Private Coaching: https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/singl... 👉 On-Demand Classes: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses 📌 NEXT STEPS & RESOURCES 🕺CONNECT WITH ME: 📣 CLIENT REVIEWS: https://bit.ly/30zFTBN 🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAj Instagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kw Facebook 👥   / kennyweiss.net   Newsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter ⚠️ IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER This course and all related content are for educational and personal growth purposes only. They are NOT therapy, mental health treatment, or medical advice, and they do not replace working with a licensed mental health or medical professional. If you are in crisis or experiencing thoughts of self-harm, please contact your local emergency services or a qualified mental health professional immediately. #kennyweiss #childhoodtrauma #highfunctioninganxiety #childhoodemtionalneglect #perfectionism