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What Causes Same-Sex Attraction? Dr. Nicolosi Interview - The Becket Cook Show Ep. 180

Support The Becket Cook Show on Patreon!:   / thebecketcookshow   Listen to the podcast version here: https://omny.fm/shows/the-becket-cook... In this captivating discussion, Becket Cook chats with Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr., a renowned clinical psychologist and Clinical Director at the Breakthrough Clinic. They dives deep into the psychological, familial, and cultural factors contributing to same-sex attraction. Drawing from the groundbreaking work of his father, Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Sr., author of Shame and Attachment Loss, we explore: The developmental stages of boys and how family dynamics influence identity. The role of father-son relationships and the concept of the "kitchen window boy." How unmet needs for male attention, affection, and approval can shape attraction. The intersection of temperament, sensitivity, and societal narratives. Why some boys eroticize their longing for male connection and the pathways to healing. Dr. Nicolosi Jr. offers a scientific perspective on these deeply personal and spiritual topics while emphasizing the freedom for individuals to choose their therapeutic goals. https://www.josephnicolosi.com/ The Becket Cook Show Ep. 180 Time Stamps 1. *Introduction & Guest Introduction (0:00)* Opening remarks and introduction of Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. Discussion about Dr. Nicolosi Sr.'s book *Shame and Attachment Loss*. 2. *Foundational Concepts (3:00)* Why some boys develop same-sex attractions. Family dynamics and early childhood experiences. 3. *Father-Son Dynamics (8:00)* Role of father detachment and criticism. Importance of gender identity development in boys. 4. *Mother's Role & "Kitchen Window Boy" (15:00)* Impact of over-involvement and high-anxiety mothers. The concept of the "kitchen window boy." 5. *Temperament and Sensitivity (20:00)* How sensitive temperaments influence development. Genetic predisposition vs. environmental factors. 6. *Sibling and Peer Relationships (25:00)* Impact of bullying, older siblings, and peer rejection. 7. *Eroticized Envy and Same-Sex Attraction (30:00)* Psychoanalytic explanation of same-sex attraction. Role of "eroticized envy" in relationships. 8. *Cultural and Social Observations (35:00)* Gay identity, societal narratives, and challenges. Study on gay couples and monogamy. 9. *Defense Mechanisms & False Self (40:00)* Development of the "false self" for self-protection. Good little boy syndrome, hyperfemininity, and hypermasculinity. 10. *Fantasy and Theater Allure (45:00)* Coping mechanisms and allure of acting/theater. Connection between dissociation and creative expression. 11. *Unmet Needs and Promiscuity (50:00)* Desire for male attention and approval. Promiscuity as a form of unresolved childhood trauma. 12. *Path Forward and Healing (55:00)* Grief work, psychotherapy, and spiritual perspectives. Resources and Dr. Nicolosi's therapeutic approach. 13. *Conclusion (1:00:00)* Final thoughts, resources, and closing remarks. WANT MORE? Buy Becket Cook's book about his dramatic conversion from gay atheist to born-again Christian: "A Change of Affection: A Gay Man's Incredible Story of Redemption" HERE - https://amzn.to/3hirfnh RECENT EPISODES OF THE BECKET COOK SHOW:    • How They Came to the West: Sunita Selvaraj...      • "This whole thing sends chills down my spi...      • What Really Happened. The Becket Cook Show...      • The AMAZING Story of Joshua Broome - The B...      • Why I'm Protestant: Dr. Gavin Ortlund @Tru...   STAY CONNECTED: Patreon:   / thebecketcookshow   Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-1308604 Twitter:   / ​​​​   Instagram:   / ​​​​   Facebook:   / ​​​​   Website: https://www.becketcook.com/​​​​ TBCS theme song by Seth Kaye #thebecketcookshow