Struggling with the unfamiliarity of having boundaries now instead of trying to fix others - “Wrong” скачать в хорошем качестве

Struggling with the unfamiliarity of having boundaries now instead of trying to fix others - “Wrong”

I used to think I had the power to fix others. This makes perfect sense. I was conditioned in a hypnotic state for the first seven years of my time on earth by caretakers who conditioned me to believe that I had the power to fix them. I learned to play the game “if you had… then I would have…” so well. Turns out our caretakers don’t always prepare us for the real world. I eventually learned that I do not have the power to fix others. I learned that we all have free will, and the other must choose to heal. I cannot induce healing by remaining tolerant of their bad behavior. And let me tell you, I could tolerate some bad behavior in my day.  So that’s why I set boundaries now. I may not have the power to choose healing for someone else, but I do possess the power to protect myself from those who don’t choose it for themselves.