Born to Be Blamed: How Your Family Destroyed Your Self-Worth | The Psychology of the Scapegoat скачать в хорошем качестве

Born to Be Blamed: How Your Family Destroyed Your Self-Worth | The Psychology of the Scapegoat

Why You Still Feel Worthless as an Adult | The Psychology of the Scapegoat's Chronic Self Blame Have you ever felt unworthy of love—especially when life seems to be going well? This video, “Why You Still Feel Worthless as an Adult (The Psychology of the Family Scapegoat),” dives deep into the emotional and biological roots of that feeling. Through a powerful metaphor—your heart’s immune system, known here as The Protector—we uncover why your mind mistakes love for danger, and how early family trauma trained your body to reject the very safety it craves. In this episode, you’ll learn: 🟢 How childhood rejection creates an “emotional pathogen” that shapes adult self‑worth 🟢 Why your nervous system sees affection as a threat and triggers anxiety after love 🟢 The hidden psychology behind the family scapegoat and chronic self‑blame 🟢 How to identify “emotional allergic reactions” like overthinking, withdrawing, or sabotaging intimacy 🟢 A step‑by‑step method to retrain your Protector and build emotional tolerance for love, safety, and peace We explore real historical parallels—like Queen Elizabeth I, whose trauma made her an emotional fortress—and reframe your worthlessness as misunderstood preciousness. This is not therapy—it’s revelation. The goal isn’t to destroy your defenses, but to teach them peace. If you’ve ever asked, “Why can’t I let people love me?” or “Why do I feel broken even when I’m safe?”—this is your answer. 🔔 If you found this video insightful, please like, comment, and subscribe to Historic Psychology for more deep dives into the dark corners of human behavior and history. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction 0:22 – The Age of False Alarms 1:34 – The Autoimmune Crisis 1:50 – The Historical Parallel 2:29 – The Reframe: Not a Flaw, An Upgrade 2:53 –The Retraining Program Keywords: family scapegoat psychology, trauma healing, self‑worth, childhood trauma recovery, emotional trauma, nervous system healing, trauma response, inner child healing, CPTSD, toxic family dynamics, anxiety after love, relationship anxiety, fear of intimacy, emotional healing, trauma education, shadow work, emotional immune system, trauma explained, reparenting, self‑sabotage, complex trauma