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Processing what went down at the meet and greet

If you have thoughts related to these topics, have written a blog/substack post on it or a youtube video, made art or something, please feel free to share in the comments! https://recoveredresilience.substack.... recoveredresilience@gmail.com _________________________________________________________ Earning money or securing access to resources in a sustainable way- It's tough as disabled/differently abled people! If you are like me, you have burned out or just changed enough in your life so that your resources and capacity are different from what it used to be. So I am learning a new way to make decisions that allows me to exchange my energy for money/resources in a way that honors who I actually am when I feel safe and that life is worth living (not just who I am when I am pushing it to the limit and surviving). What's actually sustainable for me? How do I want to spend being alive? What are my priorities that move me to keep living and breathing? Just fear of death, or a desire to enjoy the process of being my unique self, in my unique body and life? I'm grateful to have passed the "test" today to not shame myself and that I have the privilege to not force myself to agree to immense high stress in efforts to survive. What I learned about my personality and honest strengths and limitations from this experience at the dog care meet & greet: (and I think it says a lot about how I understand my role not just with dogs but how I relate to people/organizations/roles in general) I am very non reactive and self controlled. I am very patient. I freeze and analyze, and mitigate fear and harm done to someone else. But I will always seem "odd" in some ways that causes some hypersensitive dogs or people to identify me as a threat and want to harm me to either test me or provoke me to change. But sometimes it's not about "earning the abuser's trust" because unfortunately some people and animals have gotten used to requiring fear and punishment in order to manage their emotions and behavior. But I cannot participate in cultures where that is the prevailing communication and homeostasis system. It's about earning my own trust so I honor my pain (information signals) that it's not enjoyable or sustainable to be in a situation where I can't control/manage in ways that feel safe and rewarding to me, like talking, quietness and calmness, non reactivity, extreme gentleness, and fun play (but not constant or frenetic stimulation). I am not a good match where I need to constantly manage a dog's emotions in order to prevent myself from being bit/nipped/harassed. I am a good match to talk about emotional topics in safe ways with clients who also value non violent communication. I am a good match to analyze, think and talk about cause and effect and win-win narratives. I am a good match to help people brain storm alternatives. I am a good match to be reachable and give support to pet parents who like reliable communication, updates and whose dogs need to stay on the same schedule. I am a perfect cuddle buddy with dogs who I can build rapport with easily. I've been considering if my personality type would be a good match for childcare possibly also, as a private nanny. Maybe there is a parent/s out there who would cherish someone with my personality, and things about me that are limitations in one context, would be real strengths in another context. It's just so hard to find the right people. It's like, we know there are people we are highly compatible with and who need what we have. But it takes time, luck/proximity/visibilty, and the energy of a trial and error process to find the right people. Money money money! we will get more of it one day people. I won't stuff myself into any opportunity offered out of fear, I will take my time and take only the opportunities meant for me.