45% of Women Will Be Single by 2030 | How to Know If You’re Ready for Marriage and Motherhood скачать в хорошем качестве

45% of Women Will Be Single by 2030 | How to Know If You’re Ready for Marriage and Motherhood

A lot of people treat marriage and motherhood like deadlines you’re supposed to hit. In this episode, I break down how I think about readiness, not as a timeline, but as an intentional choice that should add to your life, not shrink it. I share what actually mattered to me before getting married, from choosing an exceptional partner to knowing who I was outside of a relationship and being able to financially support myself. Then we get into what real readiness for kids looks like: the costs people don’t talk about, the emotional work that shows up in postpartum and parenting triggers, and the reality that choosing to have children is a lifelong commitment. If you’re going to choose marriage or motherhood, this episode is about choosing it on purpose… not out of pressure, fear, or expectation. 🤎 We’d love to hear from you! Send us your parenting questions and hot takes at selfishparenting@gmail.com! Our favorite submissions will be featured on the show. Resources mentioned: 💚 Rise of the SHEconomy - Morgan Stanley Research - https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/w... 💚 Health fertility and age-related pregnancy data - UCSF Facility Research - https://crh.ucsf.edu/about-fertility Some key takeaways from this episode include: 💚 If your partner never changes, same job, same mindset, same habits, would you still want to be with them? 💚 Can you financially support yourself without relying on a partner? 💚 Do you know who you are outside of a relationship or motherhood? 💚 Have you lived independently enough to know what you actually want (living alone, traveling alone, dating different people)? 💚 What would you realistically have to sacrifice or give up if you had children? 💚 Have you addressed your own childhood trauma and personal triggers? 💚 Are you choosing marriage or kids because you truly want them? Or because of fear or societal pressure? Hosted by Chancé Hindir-Lane, Selfish Parenting is the honest, empowering podcast that challenges the myth of self-sacrifice in motherhood. Each episode explores identity, partnership, and the balance between nurturing your family and yourself. Connect with Me: 🤎 Instagram -   / hindirlane   🤎 Shop My - https://shopmy.us/shop/hindirlane 🤎 LTK - https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Hindi... 🤎 YouTube - Chancè -    / @hindirlane   🤎 YouTube - Selfish Parenting -    / @selfishparentingpodcast   🤎 TikTok -    / @selfishparentingpodcast