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ARE YOU IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A BPD?

#drmayurikadasbiswas #yoursurvivalmodel #mentalhealth Are you in a relationship where you have no clue what pleases or offends your partner? Are you in a relationship in which you are pretty sad? And hoping and waiting for the past happy days to come back ? But the happy days just refuse to come back. Could your partner actually be having borderline personality disorder? Are you actually unhappy in this relationship because your partner is a BPD - borderline personality disorder? watch this video till the end if you want to know if your partner has borderline personality disorder? Do you hide your true feelings and thoughts from your partner? Because you are afraid that if your partner disapproves your thoughts feelings and emotions. there will be a huge dramatic showdown / outburst, beyond your control. Therefore you believe, that it is better to suppress thoughts and feelings, than argue with this person. does your partner use information you confided in them, against you in an argument? Things disclosed to your partner are used against you. Does the fear of a dramatic and emotionally draining confrontation make you defensive and speak less in front of your partner? Resultingly does your partner accuse you of being secretive and not bonding enough? Is your partners behavior unpredictable? You have no clue what can trigger an anger outburst in your partner. Does your partner get more offended and out of control when you try to calm him or her down? Does your partner always seem to hold you responsible for they are unhealthy, unpleasant and abnormal behavior? They say their anger outburst is always because of your triggering behavior. Meaning your partner never owns up the responsibility of their own behavior. Do you find that in social events your partner always seems to do something to attract everybody's attention? May have a major disagreement with others over something trivial . May suddenly fall sick, or complaint of a physical discomfort and become the center of everybody's care and attention. Does your partner frequently manipulate you? Lies to you? Or always aims to benefit at your cost? Does your partner always aim at his or her own benefit even if it causes you losses or pain ? Does your partner often makes you feel guilty to get things their way? After being accused so heavily, you feel that it is better to comply and not be burdened by the guilt. Or even worse your partner accuses you so often that you have lost your own confidence. You believe that your partner is doing you a big favor by staying in the relationship. An example of making you guilty to get their work done could be: wife tells husband why don't you take our daughter to her friends birthday party The husband may say that he does not want to go because it's the weekend, he's too tired and would feel awkward in children's birthday party. To this the wife response that she would never ask for this favour if she was feeling any better, She accuses is the husband of being too busy in his own work and not being bothered about the wife and child #drmayurikadasbiswas #yoursurvivalmodel #motivation Claims that the child is actually growing without her fathers love Predicts that when the child will grow up she will not have a single pleasant memory of her father The wife also exaggerates her own contribution to the Childs upbringing As the accusations come in like a flood the husband actually start believing that He's really selfish to think of his own comfort and relaxation during a weekend Does your partners expectations change frequently? For example your partner may say, all I want is that you please take care of my parents When that is done, the expectation is you look after the children’s education When that is done, the expectation is to keep the house in order, When that is done, the expectation is to cook tasty meals, When that is done, the expectation is to spicy up the marriage and sex life Here you see that the partner’s expectations keep changing frequently Whatever expectation you fail to fulfil, offends your partner to a great extent and he or she is unwilling to forgive you Your partner is unable to see that an individual has a limited capacity to fulfil another person's expectations Nobody can fulfil all expectations of another person Wherever you are unable to fulfil your partner’s expectations, your partner must have the sense to understand that to save the relationship it is important to forgive the person for their shortcomings Being unable to fulfil all expectations is a human limitation. Does your partner accuse you of things you have not done?