Could This Be The Real Reason You Struggle With Love? - Rev. Dr. Sam Oye скачать в хорошем качестве

Could This Be The Real Reason You Struggle With Love? - Rev. Dr. Sam Oye

Some people grew up in homes where love wasn’t shown, wasn’t spoken, and wasn’t safe. So now, as adults, they’re in relationships trying to give something they were never taught. And it shows. They struggle with affection. They shut down during conflict. They don’t know how to express emotions properly. Not because they don’t care, but because love was never modeled for them. Now imagine being with a partner who keeps calling your attention to it every time. “You don’t know how to love.” “Why are you like this?” “Why can’t you just do better?” That can feel like another form of rejection. Yes, growth is important. Yes, accountability matters. But healing doesn’t thrive in criticism, it thrives in safety. Be with someone who doesn’t just call you out, but calls you up. Someone who says, “I see where this comes from. Let’s work on it together.” Someone who helps you grow instead of constantly reminding you where you fall short. Your past may explain your struggles, but it doesn’t define your future. With the right partner and the willingness to heal, you can learn the kind of love you never received. #healing #revsamoye #thetransformingchurch #singles #marriage