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Why Are Victims Expected to Do All the Work?

In this video, Patrick unpacks the story of Thomas, a survivor who went no contact with his abusive father after a public meltdown at his wedding, and how everyone around him quietly blamed him for the broken relationship. From the coworker who says “all families have stuff” to the aunt who pleads “you’ll have to let it go,” Patrick explores why society pressures survivors to forgive and reconnect with abusive parents while holding those parents to almost no accountability. If you’ve ever been told to “be the bigger person” or “just move on” with someone who never apologized or changed, this video will help you understand what’s really happening—and how to stop doing the emotional labor for people who hurt you. What you’ll learn: Why abusive parents often escape accountability How friends, relatives, and in-laws minimize harm to “keep the peace” The guilt, shame, and invisibility survivors feel when going no contact The hidden motivations behind advice like “forgive and forget” How to flip the script and protect your peace If you’re tired of being the only one trying to heal a relationship you didn’t break, this is for you. What to Watch Next: Toxic Mothers and the Impact on Daughters    • Toxic Mothers and the Impact on Daughters   Healing From a Narcissistic Parent    • Healing From a Narcissistic Parent   Keywords: toxic parents, no contact, narcissistic abuse recovery, family estrangement, emotional abuse, forgiveness pressure, trauma healing, boundaries, childhood trauma, inner child work Learn more about Patrick Teahan, Childhood Trauma Resources and Offerings ➡️https://linktr.ee/patrickteahan Nearly 16M kids have lost grocery benefits. Help them get the meals they need: https://www.Nokidhungry.org My New Work Book: https://Patrickteahan.com/workbook MUSIC IS BY: Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream    • Chris Haugen - Ibiza Dream   Editing Service: https://www.jamesrara.com/ ⚠️ Disclaimer My videos are for educational purposes only. Information provided on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for in person professional medical advice. It is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. If you are, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. If you are having emotional distress, please utilize 911 or the National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255