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Subscribe:    / @brandonwesig   Alternate Title: The Day I Started Respecting Myself, Everything Changed If You Don’t Respect Yourself, Your Life Can’t Improve This Is Why Your Life Feels Stuck One Shift That Changes Everything Script: Have you ever noticed that the moment you start respecting yourself… your entire life starts to change? Most people don’t realize this, but a lack of self-respect shows up in every area of life—your relationships, career, habits, faith, and even your emotions. Today, I want to break down clearly and simply: Why self-respect matters, what it looks like, and how to start building it. Because here’s the truth: Self-respect isn’t about ego or confidence. It’s about alignment. It’s the internal message that says: “My needs matter. My boundaries matter. And My voice matters.” Without it, you live a secondhand version of your own life: You tolerate relationships that drain you. You stay in jobs that disconnect you from your gifts. And You silence your emotions until resentment becomes your default setting. But, with self-respect - You stop playing a background character in your own life — and you become the author! Self-respect is not one category. It’s a posture—a way that you carry yourself across every dimension of your life. Relationally It’s speaking up. It’s refusing to stay in misaligned or toxic relationships just because they’re familiar. Physically It’s honoring your body: moving it, resting it, and listening to it instead of fighting it. Spiritually It’s making an intentional space for God and aligning yourself with something bigger than your own life. Emotionally It’s giving yourself permission to feel instead of numbing and intellectualizing everything. Occupationally It’s refusing to shrink existence down to a paycheck. Your gifts matter. Your mind matters. And your Purpose matters. And its pursuing a path that provides fulfillment as well as a paycheck. Intellectually It’s feeding your curiosity, refusing to coast, refusing to let your environment define your potential. Self-respect is a way of walking through the world that says: “I will no longer abandon myself.” so, Let me give you a roadmap of HOW TO START RESPECTING YOURSELF. Start With Small Assertions Self-respect is built in micro-moments:“Actually, that doesn’t work for me.” “I’d prefer something different.” Or “Please don’t interrupt me.” These tiny sentences create a new identity. Make—and Keep—Small Promises to yourself tell yourself that you’re going to do something, and then do it. Read one chapter. Write one journal entry. Take one walk. Pray daily. Consistency builds trust, and trust is the backbone of self-respect. Learn to Sit in Discomfort Respecting yourself may mean disappointing people. It might mean being misunderstood. And it could mean having hard conversations. walking through the door of discomfort will lead to self-respect. Ask Yourself this question: “Would I want someone I love to live the way I am living right now?” If not… why is it acceptable for you? Reclaim Space Write. Speak. Move. And Assert your preferences - not in a distasteful, belligerent, or annoying way - just Stop shrinking yourself so others remain comfortable. You were not put here to disappear - you are here for a reason. And finally, remember…. The most powerful act of self-respect isn’t loud and It’s not dramatic. It’s simply saying and believing - “I take myself seriously.” I do not need to become perfect… but i do deserve a life that I’m proud of. You don’t need permission and you don’t need credentials. Just make the drcision to start showing up for yourself—consistently. And when you do that, the resentment you’ve been carrying disappears - and your entire life begins to change.