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Fix this now and become ATTRACTIVE AF right now! Are you ready to become the most magnetic version of you? Join The Magnetic Mastery Membership here: ➡️ http://www.magneticmastery.com In this video, I'm gonna show you the three biggest mistakes that I see people make that actually kills attraction. I'm gonna show you how you can revert this energy, actually become more magnetic, and stop doing what actually isn't working. Now, the interesting thing about this is that some of these things I share, people believe, subconsciously, actually is gonna get them closer to what they want. But in fact, it has the exact opposite effect. Now, the first one is one that is probably one of the things that people use and have no idea that it's actually repelling that which they want, and that is that of neediness. The energy of neediness is something that people do because somehow there's a belief that, if I try to control, if I do these other things that are needy, but that it's going to actually get me what I want. This happens very often as well with that of what is called an anxious attachment style. So in general, there is anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, and secure attachment. These are the three main attachment styles. And what people with anxious attachment style believe is if I try to control, if I go and, you know, try to fix this person. If I am this needy type way, then I will get that of the validation, the approval, the feeling of safety, or whatever the desire is. Now, the thing is is that actually, many times, has the complete opposite effect. Have you ever been or met somebody that really, really wanted your approval? Really wanted you to do something? A lot of times, you can feel this if you're going to a sales store. Go to a sales store, and you'll notice that the person that is normally the least attached is normally the person you're gonna be most attracted to. If somebody's like, "Can I please help you? Can I please help you," and they really wanna help you, it's coming from a level of neediness, and then what'll end up happening is you're gonna feel that energy, and you're gonna kind of back off. It's like, if I was making this video, and I was like, "Please like this video, please." And you were like, "Whoa, bro, just calm down, dude." But there's a different energy when it's like you're unattached from the outcome. Now, you could still have an intention. You could still have an intention. Like, me working that nine to five job, if I were to go in, and using the sales idea as an example, if I were to go into work and my intention were to connect to other people. my intention were to add value to other people, that's a very present moment energy. But if I needed to make my paycheck, if I needed other people's validation or approval, then it was a very different thing. Now, with this as well, let's look at this. This is a very simple way of understanding magnetic energy versus needy energy. Think of magnetic energy as also non-neediness. The degree to which you are not needy is the degree to which you are attractive. The degree to which you have needy energy is the degree to which you actually repel love. So the key to this is moving and letting go of the needy energy, which, a lot of times, comes from also codependency, codependent energy. And a deeper aspect of this is, as kids, what many times happened is we felt like our needs weren't being met, and we would then attune ourselves to our parents and to our environment in order to get our needs met. So it's almost like there's a belief, growing up, that there's something wrong with me. I'm not good enough the way I am. It doesn't feel safe inside my own body, so I must tune to my mom or my dad and somehow make them happy. I must please them, be the way they want me to be. And then what happens is, even after childhood, we're then in relationships, you know, years later, and we feel like, "Oh, I'm still tuning to my parents," even though now that parent might even be your significant other or someone that you're dating, and you want their approval or validation. You feel like you need them. And the key to this is realizing that, a lot of times, what happened here with neediness and codependency is, as kids, we may have felt like our needs were not met. Our inner childhood needs were not met, and therefore, a lot of times, we wire in a belief that there's something wrong with me. There's something wrong with me, and that in order for me to actually get my needs met, I must overcompensate. I must overcompensate; I must be perfect. I must make other people happy. And then what ends up happening is we get a self-fulfilling belief-prophecy thing, where we attract people that naturally can't meet our needs. Because it feels normal for our needs not to be met, and then we go through a whole process with that because it refuels the belief, "Oh, there's something wrong with me.