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When to Walk Away: The Courage to Pivot

In this episode of *State of Mine*, co-hosts Kanwulia Gwam and Lia Neal unpack the idea of “chaotic ambition,” sparked by a LinkedIn post from Alexis Barber describing “too many lanes, not enough intention.” Kanwulia relates it to doing everything at once—anxiety-driven overcommitment in undergrad while trying to choose an engineering major—while Lia connects it to the opposite extreme: tunnel-vision ambition through a 20-year swimming career and the never-ending Olympic goalpost. They discuss burnout, misalignment, identity, and “post-Olympic blues,” and explore what helps break the cycle: clarifying values, changing environment/perspective, using informational interviews, and reframing quitting as an empowered choice. Lia also shares how COVID created space to step away from swimming, apply to business school, and help launch Swimmers for Change, a webinar series raising awareness and funds for marginalized communities. Follow State of Mine Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/4zhmnnd9 Instagram:   / stateofminepod   Show minutes: 00:00 Welcome to ‘State of Mind’ (Show intro + premise) 00:26 The LinkedIn post that sparked this: ‘Chaotic Ambition’ 01:15 Defining chaotic ambition: potential, but no clear target 02:06 What it looked like in real life: packed schedule, burnout, misalignment 03:04 When it hit hardest: pre–business school + books that catalyzed change 03:55 A different kind of chaos: Lia’s tunnel-vision ambition in swimming 06:24 Kanwulia’s version: doing everything in undergrad (major + extracurricular overload) 08:50 Root cause: anxiety, fear of the ‘wrong’ decision, and action vs. introspection 11:31 Why swimming became the only lane: early structure, clear goals, rule-following 15:14 The downside of tunnel vision: four-year cycles, identity, and post-Olympic blues 19:03 How to know when to keep going vs. pivot: values, check-ins, and outside perspective 22:03 Timeline check: Olympics in high school + Stanford + going pro 24:01 Goal-setting in elite sport: always ‘do better than last time’ 24:57 The Never-Ending Goalpost: One-Upping Yourself After College 25:30 Breaking Chaotic Ambition: Change Your Environment + Clarify Values 26:12 COVID as a Catalyst: Falling Out of Love With Swimming & Choosing to Stop 27:42 Why Mechanical Engineering: Catalysts, Co-ops, and the Harley Davidson Moment 31:19 Life After Swimming Anxiety: Depression, Purpose, and Applying to Business School 33:51 Swimmers for Change: Social Impact, 2020 Reflection, and Building a Platform 36:18 Redirecting Without Regret: J. Cole, the ‘Wrong Way,’ and Making the Abyss Smaller 38:51 Informational Interviews: The Fastest Way to Test a New Path 40:32 Quitting vs Choosing: Satisfaction, Agency, and the Ikigai Ending