Understanding Reactive Abuse and Reabuse: Interview with Annette Oltmans [214] скачать в хорошем качестве

Understanding Reactive Abuse and Reabuse: Interview with Annette Oltmans [214]

Annette Oltmans is here to help us better understand reactive abuse and reabuse. After having personal experience with an emotionally abusive husband and reabuse from her church and therapists, she is on a mission to help other women in similar situations. Let’s dive into the messiness surrounding reactive abuse, what we can do to protect ourselves from reabuse, and how we can heal. Key Points From This Episode: What reactive abuse is, what causes it, and why “reactive defense” might be a better term. What mutual abuse is (and why it’s is actually a myth). Why having a therapist who is an expert in the field of domestic violence is critical to your healing (and helps you avoid reabuse). Different forms of reabuse, also known as “double abuse.” Why reabuse can cause C-PTSD. How to avoid reactive abuse and reabuse. What Vietnam War veterans and you have in common. Go to www.flyingfreenow.com/214 to listen to the episode or to read the transcript. Related Resources: Annette has some excellent articles on her site that you don’t want to miss, including “What Most Miss About Reactive Abuse" (https://themendproject.com/reactive-a..., “Overt vs. Covert Behaviors (Relationship Examples)" (https://themendproject.com/overt-vs-c..., and the one she mentioned in today’s episode, “How to Choose a Therapist for Your Troubled Relationship" (https://themendproject.com/therapist-...) If you’re in a difficult or abusive marriage or relationship, gain the clarity to navigate out of the maze of confusion and experience healing by joining M3ND’s relationship conflict course (https://themendproject.com/resolving-.... Use the code FLYINGFREE at checkout for 25% off! My newest book, All the Scary Little Gods (https://www.flyingfreenow.com/all-the..., is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming. Are you wondering what is happening inside of your painful and confusing marriage? I wrote another book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse at https://www.flyingfreenow.com/is-it-me/ Flying Free is my online membership program designed for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay well in your marriage or leave, we want to support you within this program at http://www.joinflyingfree.com Flying Higher is my online membership program for Christian women who have divorced their emotionally abusive ex-husband. Come rebuild your life after divorce with women just like you at http://www.joinflyinghigher.com Annette Oltmans is a celebrated author, speaker and founder of The M3ND Project, (TMP), a 501c3 organization dedicated to educating victims/survivors, therapists, faith leaders, and other responders on hidden emotional abuse and double abuse. Her personal experience with prolonged emotional abuse in her marriage and double abuse by therapists and faith leaders, along with her extensive field research and journey toward recovery, led her to develop training curricula, tools, and resources that comprehensively address these topics.