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You’re Dead to Me - Shunning as Social Control

In this episode of WTF Is On My Mind?!, Mark Vicente pulls back the curtain on one of the most insidious tools of social control: shunning — not just as a personal act of rejection, but as a systemic, psychological weapon masquerading as moral high ground. This isn’t just about cults. It’s about how cult behavior has gone mainstream — how families, political factions, media outlets, and activist circles now use public exile and cold silence to punish dissent and demand conformity. Drawing on a recent New York Times opinion piece that unintentionally exposes the creeping logic of ideological purity, Mark examines the difference between healthy boundaries and coercive exile, between critical thinking and performative allegiance. He also reflects on his own experience inside NXIVM, where shunning was formal doctrine — and how eerily familiar those same dynamics look in our current cultural climate. From mocking deaths to cutting off loved ones for their beliefs, we’re in dangerous territory when belonging becomes conditional on orthodoxy — be it political, medical, or spiritual. But all is not doom and gloom. This episode also looks at how the spell can break — how real human connection, outside the algorithms and echo chambers, can restore our capacity for nuance, empathy, and even disagreement without destruction. Mark’s take is blunt, piercing, and layered with lived experience — and it just might make you think twice about who’s really being “cultish.” https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/13/op...   / nyt_is_it_time_to_stop_snubbing_your_right...   00:00 – Intro 00:52 – Why this episode might get under your skin 01:12 – My political lens: old-school liberal 02:02 – Shunning isn’t just for cults anymore 03:30 – What shunning really is - and how it functions 04:33 – Cult tactics: coercion, exile, and shame 05:12 – Shunning in families & politics: ideological exile 05:46 – Enter: the NYT article that sparked this rant 06:54 – Elitism, cultural superiority & unconscious bias 08:06 – Strategic frostiness as virtue signaling 09:03 – Mocking deaths & media-sanctioned exile 10:30 – Dehumanization as a tool of moral warfare 11:08 – Cult logic: ideological purity over connection 12:18 – The “accountability” trap in high-control systems 12:47 – What we lose when we banish dissent 13:41 – Radicalization and the cult of certainty 14:18 – Doubt, control, and the fear of contamination 15:10 – When dissent is treated like betrayal 16:01 – The spell breaks: connection to conversion 17:00 – Surfing, brotherhood, and post-pompous peace 18:19 – Agree to disagree: humanity beyond politics 19:09 – What we’re really protecting when we shun 20:00 – Final reflections: cults of behavior, not belief Patreon:   / markvicente   Website: www.markvicente.com Instagram:   / markvicente   X: https://x.com/markvicente TikTok:   / mark_vicente   Facebook:   / markvicente