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The Girl I Was, The Woman I am

This song is about my ex — the person I spent 12 years with. We met as young adults and basically grew up together. For a long time, I told myself we were just “right person, wrong time.” But the truth is more honest than that. We were two traumatized kids trying to build an adult relationship without the tools to do it well. We loved each other, but we didn’t know how to love in a healthy way. We triggered each other. We fought hard. And I had to face my part in that. I hurt him, too. I confused chaos with passion and control with safety. That’s something I carry real remorse about. This song isn’t about blaming him. It’s about owning what was mine. I’m in a much steadier, healthier relationship now, and being loved well has shown me how much growing I needed to do. That growth didn’t erase the past — it reframed it. He’s not a villain in my story. He’s a human being who has healing to do, just like I did. This song is an open-handed goodbye to who we were back then. Not a slammed door. Just acknowledgment, growth, and choosing peace.