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不是每個人都符合標準【傳統節慶好累人】Not Everyone Fits the Standard. RethinkingTraditional Values

不是每個人，都符合「標準」的人生與家庭樣貌。 也不是每個人，都能輕鬆地喜歡過年。 節慶最初的意義，是感謝、是平安、是撐過了一整年。 但隨著時代變遷，家庭結構變得越來越複雜， 離婚、再婚、單身、少子、重組家庭， 早已成為許多人的日常。 然而在節慶裡， 我們卻依然被一套單一的敘事包圍—— 團圓、興旺、孝順、幸福， 彷彿人生只有這一種標準答案。 這支影片不是反對傳統。 而是想邀請大家，重新理解節慶的意義。 如果你剛好擁有一個相對和諧的家庭， 那是一份難得的福氣， 也願你在有餘力時， 多一點關懷、分享與善意， 讓溫暖繼續流動。 如果你在節慶裡感到疲憊、格格不入， 請你知道——你沒有問題。 你不需要迎合一套不適合自己的人生模板。 你可以選擇善待自己、更舒服的過節方式。 不是每個人都符合標準， 但每一種人生，都值得被尊重。 Not everyone fits the standard image of a “perfect” holiday. Traditional festivals were once about survival, gratitude, and simply being alive together. But in modern society, family structures have changed. Divorce, remarriage, singlehood, child-free lives, and complex family ties are now common realities. Yet during the Chinese New Year holidays, we are still surrounded by a single narrative — togetherness, prosperity, harmony, and filial perfection. For some, the holidays feel warm and joyful. For others, they feel exhausting, performative, or quietly painful. This video is not against tradition. It is an invitation to rethink it. To recognize that not everyone has the same family, the same path, or the same capacity — and that a meaningful holiday does not have to look the same for everyone. If you are fortunate enough to have a harmonious family, may you cherish it — and if you have the capacity, extend kindness, generosity, and care to others. And if you find yourself feeling out of place during the holidays, know this: you are not broken. You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to choose a gentler way to celebrate. You are allowed to be kind to yourself. Not everyone fits the standard — and that, too, is part of being human.