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How to DEAL with OPINION of Other PEOPLE?

Ask Evan your question on his next livestream here:    / @evancarmichaelgaming   In this video Evan answers this question: How to DEAL with EXPECTATIONS of Other PEOPLE? Here's the Automated Transcript: 00:00 looking artwork my dad knows about 00:01 entities he asked me why i'm not making 00:03 money i'm wasting time maybe if i'm not 00:06 making money he made me do it uh 00:08 why am i making money i'm wasting time 00:10 making it if i'm not oh okay 00:13 uh do freelance work 00:16 but yet i just found three works and 00:18 then no work found yet the guy became a 00:21 salesman sell my nfts 00:23 okay nobody wants okay i've been a 00:25 newbie and nfts 00:28 now i'm feeling too ashamed to make the 00:30 artwork but i can't really feel like i 00:32 stopped making them okay shame makes me 00:34 feel down 00:35 the girls my friend understands nfts 00:37 make fun of me 00:38 incidents okay so listen here's the 00:40 thing 00:45 as long as you're 00:46 living with your parents 00:48 there's 00:50 always going to be some expectations on 00:52 them and even honestly when you move out 00:54 there's expectations on what 00:56 what they want what your life should be 00:59 with them right there's always going to 01:00 have that 01:02 expectation 01:04 and listen as long as if you are living 01:06 at home 01:07 then they have a uh 01:10 you know a certain right so 01:12 the answer then becomes okay at what 01:15 point can you move out 01:16 at what point can you go off and do your 01:18 own thing 01:20 and how do you find some 01:22 security to be able to support yourself 01:25 right this is this is always a problem 01:28 when 01:29 people are at home and they want to live 01:31 their dreams but their parents don't 01:32 support them well your parents love you 01:35 they want to see you succeed they just 01:36 don't understand nfts they don't think 01:38 it's going to work they don't they don't 01:39 see you making money until they're 01:40 worried about you 01:42 and and also worried maybe about them 01:44 and how they're perceived and seen 01:46 so 01:48 you could 01:49 move out 01:50 but then how do you support yourself 01:53 right if you're going to move out how 01:54 are you going to support yourself you're 01:55 going to have to get some kind of job 01:56 until your your nft project or other 01:59 business supports you 02:00 right 02:03 or you can stay home and then continue 02:05 to get 02:06 the 02:07 not punishment but the the opinions 02:11 so 02:12 usually the best thing is to do a 02:13 combination 02:14 you do both 02:16 you do the thing listen either way if 02:18 you stay at home you're gonna have to 02:19 end up getting the freelance job 02:21 to 02:22 make your parents happy while part-time 02:24 doing your nfts and if you want to move 02:26 out you're going to have to get a 02:27 part-time job anyway to support yourself 02:30 right because you can't afford to move 02:31 out and go live on your own 02:34 so either way you have to get a job to 02:37 support yourself or to make the people 02:38 around you happy and that doesn't mean 02:40 you give up on your dream doesn't mean 02:41 you give up on your idea of wanting to 02:44 create your nft projects 02:46 so it's doing both 02:49 if i was starting my business now i mean 02:51 i did this dude i did this i was in 02:53 university and had my business while i 02:54 was studying 02:56 i did both 02:58 it would be awesome to go full time and 03:00 do your thing but that's that's not a 03:03 that's not a practical reality so you go 03:04 and you do both 03:06 the key is making sure that you 03:09 are still spending time every day at you 03:11 working on your 03:12 passion project 03:14 so that it can become something more 03:15 than just a passion project that it 03:17 becomes something legit something real 03:18 something that supports you but 03:21 you it's you don't have the knowledge 03:23 and you don't have the skills yet that's 03:25 all it's just a yet question you have 03:27 the knowledge and skills yet but you can 03:28 get there 03:30 right just like anything else how do you 03:31 how do you get better at something well 03:33 you practice 03:34 you keep making you 03:36 being ashamed and then stopping creation 03:38 is not the answer 03:40 you have to keep making you have to keep 03:42 doing 03:43 you have to keep sharing 03:48 and so that means part time you have to 03:49 go get a job 03:51 great 03:52 keep going it's okay i can bear my 03:53 parents but it feels shameful in between 03:55 my friends when they see me doing the 03:56 work and saying i'm getting anywhere 03:58 with it yeah dude your friends don't 03:59 know what they're doing with their life 04:01 like 04:02 judging yourself and and 04:04 treating yourself harshly based off of 04:06 what your friends think is a recipe for 04:07 losing your friends have no idea what 04:09 they're doing 04:10 they have no idea they're judging you is