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The Best Way To Feel Calm (Is to Not Try To Feel Calm)

Ready to begin or deepen your meditation practice? Join Dan Harris and world-class meditation teachers on the 10% with Dan Harris app here: https://app.danharris.com/membership Most people meditate to feel calm. That's actually the problem. In this solo episode, Dan Harris takes live questions from app subscribers on one of the most common — and most counterproductive — traps in meditation: using it to escape what you're feeling instead of actually feeling it. Dan has been meditating for years and still catches himself over-efforting, chasing states, and getting in his own way. Here, he gets honest about what the practice is actually for. In this conversation, Dan addresses: Why meditating through serious emotional pain requires a totally different approach The "addiction to calm" — why craving a certain feeling in meditation is a hidden hindrance How to build focus and concentration without straining so hard you give yourself a headache What to do when you're too physically restless to sit still (especially if you have ADHD) Whether guided meditations are "training wheels" — or actually the point How long you really need to meditate (and when to push yourself further) This episode is a recording of a live session from the 10% with Dan Harris app, where Dan takes questions from subscribers every Tuesday at 4 PM ET. Timestamps: 0:00:00 Introduction 0:02:44 Non-duality and the illusion of self — why "not finding" is the finding 0:04:50 Meditating through grief and emotional pain (Rose's question) 0:07:50 The connection between rumination and emotion — how to work with both 0:08:20 The addiction to feeling calm in meditation (Lisa's question) 0:10:00 Why wanting a certain state is a hindrance — and how to label it 0:11:00 Concentration without strain — why trying harder makes it worse 0:12:40 The "attitude check" — how to spot an unseen agenda in your practice 0:13:40 Guided vs. unguided meditation — are you keeping your training wheels on? (Jeanette's question) 0:15:00 The "third eye" and the space between your eyebrows (Jamie's question) 0:15:40 Meditating with ADHD and restlessness (Andra's question) 0:17:20 Walking meditation — how Dan actually does it (including the Snuggie) 0:18:50 Should you push yourself to meditate longer? (Kevin's question) 0:20:30 Closing thoughts Ready to join these live sessions? Sign up for the 10% with Dan Harris app — includes a growing library of guided meditations, live weekly Q&As with Dan, and a community so you don't have to figure this out alone. Free 14-day trial: https://app.danharris.com/membership Subscribe to watch more 10% Happier videos:    / tenpercenthappier   Follow Dan Harris on Social Media:   / danharris     / danbharris     / danharrisabc     / danbharris     / dan-harris-91ba5716b   #meditation #anxiety #mindfulness LinkedIn:  Spend $250 on your first campaign on LinkedIn ads and get a $250 credit for the next one. Just go to   / happier