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90. The Silent Marriage Killers Women Don’t Realize They’re Doing

If you’re a wife who loves Jesus… shows up faithfully… and genuinely wants a healthy, connected marriage — this episode is for you. In this final part of our Silent Marriage Killers series, I’m speaking directly to women — not to shame us, but to free us. So many of the patterns that quietly erode intimacy in marriage aren’t intentional or malicious. They’re protective. They’re learned. And often, they’re rooted in childhood experiences where vulnerability didn’t feel safe, needs weren’t met consistently, or responsibility became a survival strategy. In this episode, I share honestly — from my own story and from years in the counseling room — about the subtle patterns many women fall into without realizing it: emotional withdrawal, silent scorekeeping, mothering our husbands, emotional affairs, weaponized silence, unrealistic expectations, and the martyr complex. We’ll talk about why these patterns form, how they connect to the Unhappy Kid Triangle, and how the Holy Spirit invites us into a healthier, more grounded way of loving — the Happy Kid Triangle — where honesty, honor, and connection can grow. If you’ve ever wondered: “Why do I shut down when I’m hurt?” “Why does marriage trigger the oldest parts of me?” “Why do I feel disconnected even when nothing big is wrong?” I want you to know — you’re not broken. You’re not failing. And you’re not beyond repair. Healing doesn’t start with fixing your husband. It starts with letting God gently heal your heart. 🎧 This episode completes our three-part Silent Marriage Killers series: • Episode 88 — The Silent Marriage Killers Couples Struggle With (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...) • Episode 89 — The Silent Marriage Killers Men Struggle With (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...) • Episode 90 — The Silent Marriage Killers Women Don’t Realize They’re Doing 📖 You can read the accompanying three-part blog series at happyfamilycoach.com (https://happyfamilycoach.com/blog/) 🌿 Learn more about the February Renew & Restore Women’s Healing Retreat (https://happyfamilycoach.com/events) 💛 Book a biblical counseling or family coaching session — click here (https://happyfamilycoach.com/services) I’m praying that as you listen, the Holy Spirit meets you with clarity, compassion, and hope — and that your marriage begins to breathe again. You’re not alone. And healing is possible. xoxo, Danielle