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🔴What the Narcissist Thinks and Feels About You When You Don’t Let Them Back In

Please Subscribe ‪@NarcPedia‬ for various topics related to narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Let's heal and grow together! Thank You! Today, we are going to dive deep into a subject that I know so many of you grapple with. It’s that moment that makes your stomach drop and your heart start to race. Your phone lights up with a text from that name. The email that suddenly appears in your inbox after months, or even years, of silence. The "hoover" has arrived. And you are faced with a choice. We will delve into a crucial topic: What does a Narcissist truly think and feel about you when you refuse to allow them to re-enter your life? Understanding this perspective is vital, as many of us, myself included, have experienced the painful cycle of idealization, devalue, and discard, often more times than necessary within a trauma bond. Without sufficient information, it can be challenging to comprehend the motivations of an abusive individual. One might mistakenly dismiss their behavior as merely 'toxic' or a 'bad day.' Our aim today is to illuminate the inner workings of a Narcissist's mind when you choose to deny them re-entry, exploring their thoughts and emotions towards you. Fundamentally, in any relationship, a Narcissist seeks to control the other individual, who serves as their Supply. This desire stems from their perpetual need to feel essential, desired, and ultimately, in power. But we need to understand why this control is so essential to them. It’s not just a preference; it's a survival mechanism. As many professionals in this field explain, the narcissist lacks a stable, core sense of self. They live with a profound internal emptiness, a "void." It's not emptiness like we might feel—a sadness or a loneliness. It's a fundamental lack of identity. They don't know who they are, so they outsource their self-definition. This is why their relationships are purely transactional. The narcissist doesn't have relationships, they have sources of supply. You, as their partner, friend, or family member, were not just a person to them; you were a function. You were a high-performing asset. Your role was to be a mirror, reflecting back to them the grandiose, perfect, all-powerful image they so desperately need to believe in. This is what we call "Narcissistic Supply." To achieve this, they meticulously control their Supply's thoughts, appearance, and emotions, actively manipulating situations to elicit specific reactions—whether it is joy or sorrow. Their objective is to orchestrate every aspect of your experience. They need to know that they are the one making you happy, they are the one making you sad, they are the one you are thinking about. This ability to provoke a response, any response, confirms their power. Your joy is supply because they caused it. Your tears are supply because they caused them. Your anger is supply because they provoked it. Any emotional reaction from you, positive or negative, serves as proof of their power and, in their mind, their very existence. Indifference is the only thing that starves them. "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel." #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder