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Ammoomma Marichu! - De.ath/grief & parenting.

Parents ask about Discussing death with a child. I'll tell you how. Actually Many of you might have heard this line at home when a parent says You'll understand when I die When i die you'll struggle.. When i die you'll know my value After my death you'll know how much I sacrificed for you all You know what, I'll just go and die , no one cares about me. And obviously a child freaks out when a parent says such things.. Or we were in families that never ever spoke about it. Even if a family member passed on.. We really don't talk about what we feel after they've gone.. Or probably never known healthy ways of grieving too .. So because of such extreme experiences, in most of our minds, death is a very scary, mysterious, untouched topic that everyone is very uncomfortable to dive into. Fact is - It happens to all of us It happens in every family It is inevitable But we don't talk about it.. My recommendation to parents who want to talk about it will be - don't focus on your death, and ask the child how he or she'll feel.. I understand you want to have conversations around it.. The angle of losing you will make them unnecessarily anxious.. What you can do is if someone passes on..or if its someone's death anniversary you can just start a conversation on how this person was.. How they are no longer with us.. They are in heaven They are amidst the stars All that's based on your personal value systems.. I can't comment on it. But talk about their absense ,how you miss them. How death is normal.. Happens to everyone.. People can leave any time.. How we need to be kind to everyone.. How we can focus on making everyday count .. On those lines. Point is - it totally depends upon how comfortable you are about the subject of death that you'll be able to have conversations around it. So not only and death...but read more about grief .. How does that feel. ? How to help someone that's going through it.. If we know how to deal with death or grief in healthy ways.. We will be able to have conversations with our children someday ..